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I'm not saying anything close to 100% but I am saying generally for the majority of girls but for guys I think it's all over the place.

For example, girls will make eye contact, smile if they're a little more confident, play with their hair, try to do favors or try to get her crush to do her a favor and do what they can to be near their crush.

Guys will tell a girl she's pretty sometimes but a lot of the time, guys won't. A lot of the time, guys beat around the bush. Sometimes he'll compliment what she's wearing or her hair and give up or he really was just saying that with no intention of going past that. Sometimes he'll do the bad boy act because he thinks that's what girls want. Sometimes he'll just look at her creepily or sometimes not creepy but it gets weird and kinda creepy when he doesn't say anything. Sometimes the guy will just act completely like a friend and out of nowhere he wants to hook up.

Like a girl will only find you really desirable at an extreme I’ve noticed. Like if you’re very good looking, very rich.

That’s woman attraction for you. Like women don’t really like guys that much, not the way men like women. Women are kinda strange.

If I was just a nice guy, woman wouldn’t want me for shit 💩

Of course attraction is subjective, and my question may seem shallow, but id like to hear your opinion on this.

As a decently attractive male, I recently came to the realization that Im more attracted to women that dated men as attractive as me or more.

My current girlfriend is very good looking and has only dated good looking guys. It felt great learning that she aims for the top and I'm part of that. I feel oddly prideful.

My previous girlfriend was also very good looking but dated and slept with a lot subjectively ugly men (we dated 4 years and met at 20). I remember feeling very self conscious, especially running into her exes all around campus, thinking man, how could she have slept with that guy! It bothered me quite a bit, but I was pretty immature and young at the time.

Anyway, excited to hear some opinions!

Cheers!