White Men, What are signs that you’re interested in her?

[Anonymous]

I’m a black woman and I feel like white men are hard to read when it comes to expressing their interest. There’s this guy that I’m attracted to at church and we speak here and there because we’re in the same Bible study group. I can sense there’s some interest and attraction on his end but when I try to catch him looking or read his body language I get confused !

He seems like a gentlemen to everyone and his body language is hard to read because it’s subtle.

Drop some information down below !

[Pyrofox]

I've found a lot of guys so long as you don't make the social cultural differences an issue a lot of guys. Will generally go with the flow.

[Jackblue]

Often times if he ignores a woman it is a sign he is interested. White men especially church going white men, are often shy.

[Asker]

Thank you for sharing.

[hahahmm]

Oh, so only white men can be gentlemen? Thanks for the laugh.

[Asker]

Whatever floats your boat.

[Anonymous]

As a white I'm not that interested in black woman. I'm not racist though.

I just think culturally we didn't have that much in common as well not a lot black women live near me.

I probably only seen 3 black people around my neighborhood. And one of them is the Amazon driver.

[MCheetah]

This AGAIN! You are obsessed with white dudes. Especially those trashy Londoner ones.

[Asker]

I’m obsessed with white dudes? Whatever helps you sleep at night.

[HighValue]

If you want him to more openly show interest, wear one of those cool red hats that has USA on the front and a 45 on the side. That should get his attention. Only if he is cool though. :P

[Andres77]

Sometimes you just have to tell a white boy what you want.
That's what my wife told me.
Plus, my first two wives were black. They had to pursue me. I never would have acted. But then I divorced both of them. Long story.

[boggboss]

I'm so confused how are white mens way of showing intrest different from any other race sorry

[Asker]

It’s definitely different in my experience.

[boggboss]

How so please examine

[boggboss]

Explain

[Asker]

Well, when black men are more straight forward and even if they’re shy they will make it obvious that they’re interested. Consistent eye contact and there isn’t any guessing. In a group setting if he’s interested in that woman he will show it by creating the 1 on 1 conversation.

White men sorta ease their way in. He may look at the woman or glance but it’s not going to be obvious which makes it hard to identify his true interest. In big groups he’ll socialize with everyone in the room and he’ll interact with the woman but because he speaks to every woman in the room it’s hard to tell if he’s just being nice or he’s interested.

[boggboss]

Lol I guess u are right this must be linked to your direct expirance or maybe where u live

[whosnumber1]

your probably right to some degree. being a white dude if I am interested I make my interest known. I've never had a problem with that. I'd rather put it out there and figure it out that be subtle and wait for something to happen

[boggboss]

I have a few white friends she is not describing them thats why I was confused

[whosnumber1]

Roger that!

[Neosporin]

I’m not a white guy but I’m guessing its pretty obvious you just someone just needs to make a move

[Wester1967]

Zaddy ain't nuthin but trouble sister