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So me and my woman tried coconut oil to fuck with because we are both novices and virgins I slicked my dick up with some nut oil and I slid it in. No lie it was so good at lubing i couldnt feel a damn thing 😡 basically we were a well oiled efficient machine but I need some friction. The lady is long gone in my past so I can't ask her if this lack of friction ruined her experience as it did mine.

When I first started boxing... It was an amazing experience. I had no idea what I was doing, but I learned fast.
I love feeling the sweat pour down my face, and how it flies off my brow from the force of trying to smash someone's skull open (makes you hit harder). It's also a good way to get a workout in, because the fatigue is offset by the motivation to keep on fighting.
It also just feels good... to be able to hurt someone, without going to jail. It's like being able to finally express yourself.
1000x better than therapy.
I thought about transitioning my gender to pursue a career in pro fighting. But realistically I have about 3x the level of "normal" testosterone for an American male. So that's not even necessary when even dudes are like women athletes compared to me.

I've had a few casual dalliances with women who turned out to be engaged, married or otherwise taken. No, I did not know they were taken at the time, and it would have been a dealbreaker for me if I did know. Usually, the men and I find out about each other at the same time.

The whole experience has shaken my trust in women to the point that I really don't want to take any woman for my wife, because I thought the women I was messing around with were high enough integrity to not step out behind anyone's back. Clearly I'm either a bad judge of character or surrounded by skilled liars.

In any case, the thought occurred to me that I should probably just start asking women I date if they're entangled with anyone. But then I realized that any woman who was down to go behind their boyfriend/husband's back, probably wouldn't think twice about lying to the men she messes around with. All that being said, if I do ask, at least then I can say that I DID technically ask, you know... from like a personal morality standpoint. I didn't just assume anything; I asked, but she still deceived me.

I once had a woman ask me if I was married several times, and it was honestly a big turn off to me. I understood where she was coming from, but the suspicion threw me off and kind of offended me.

So, I come humbly before you, G@G, to ask for your opinions:

Is it worth taking the time to ask a woman if she's taken before we mess around and risk offending her, or would I be better off just assuming that she'd tell me she was single/available whether or not it was true?