I would connect the dots, if they are telling mw they are stressed out etc I would ask what is stressing them out. A lot of things can affect someone's libido, stress basically kills it. They could also be depressed, anxious, have a lot going on in their head so it's normal and I would give that person space. But if I see that what they are telling me isn't true I would suspect they just simply don't want to have sex with me in particular. like for example if they say they are depressed while they clearly aren't or if they say they are stressed when there is nothing stressing them out and they clearly aren't that's when it's a no for me.
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I would sit down any have a discussion about why there was a lack of intimacy. Of course I would believe my SO if there was a logical answer as to why.
The thing to remember is to approach the conversation as positive as possible, as often the reason for not wanting intimacy may be embarrassing. Example: many medical reasons for a decline in sex drive.
That is hard to accept and deal with sometimes. It can lead to mental stress.
Haven't been getting much recently, I know her reasons are genuine though. It's getting tougher, i like sex and it's been a while since we were having it regularly. I'm having a vasectomy in a couple. of weeks, hopefully when I heal from that she'll be feeling better herself and we can get back to it.
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I am someone who has low libido to the point I can’t have sex all that often because it can be quite painful and uncomfortable for me your lucky if you get sex once every few month even with a lot of foreplay happening and it sucks and is super embarrassing one time I tried having sex but I burst into tears because it was just too painful for me no matter what we tried thankfully the guy was extremely understanding and caring and didn’t force me to continue he still in my life to this day
So knowing this is something I experience when it comes to sex if someone stop wanting sex cheating would be the furthest from my mind I would actually sit down with them and talk with that person in a calm voiceHonestly relationship is not the same as friendship. If there is no sex, it therefore means that your spouse no longer sees you as a relationship material, and slowly his/her love is beginning to fade away. This can be a huge sign that the person will later cheat.
I’d be paranoid that they either no longer find me sexually attractive or they’re getting sex elsewhere. Either way, ima give yo ass another good 1-3 months to pull that shit together or im out
You're gonna have to decide weather your wife is more important or sex is. You didn't marry sex you married yourspouse. Would you rather she just sit there and take even if she doesn't want it?
If someone does that they are cheating
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