If your partner didn't care/would never find out, would you sleep with other people?

[Anonymous]

Yes I would sleep with other people

No I would only sleep with my partner

[AviatorTom]

Possibly, it would depend on who the other people are and the exact opinion of my SO.

[Adam1978]

If she didn't care, I would question why she is with me. I would still not cheat even if I could get away with it. It's a morality thing, I don't do thing because of punishment. I don't do them because I think it's wrong.

[DizzyDesii]

Its not hard to sneak around these days. Its really not. Most are more bold to just do it in your face because they know you’ll never leave or just take em back. I personally have no interest in cheating on someone

[Anonymous]

hell no. i'd like to keep my count to 1 only. plus, i don't want anyone else. other guys are just terrible...

[God_of_Thunder]

Of course not, because it's not, and never has been, about them finding out.

It's about me being able to respect myself, and know that I'm not a massive piece of shit.

[Asker]

That's why I also said if they don't mind. So if your significant other said she doesn't mind you sleeping with other women would you?

[God_of_Thunder]

Nope, because when I am in a relationship, I commit to that person. Even if they were ok with it; hell, even if they asked me to, I still wouldn't do it, because I would lose respect for myself.

Not only that, I would also seriously reconsider staying in a relationship with a person who didn't see anything wrong with that, because we obviously have different beliefs about what relationships are, and if she doesn't see an issue with her partner sleeping with someone else, then she probably has no issues cheating on me, either.

No, thank you.

[Asker]

Oh so you're definitely against poly relationships too lol. You'd be surprised how many guys I've met that say they would be in a threesome with their partner and another girl.

[Keyboardkat]

What kind of a relationship are you in? In my old-fashioned view of the world, sleeping with someone else when you are in a relationship is called "betrayal." A warm, caring and affectionate relationship must be built on mutual trust. If you cannot trust someone, why are you with them?

[LiamJHayden]

I wouldn't stay with someone who didn't care. Also, would not do so even if I knew she would not find out because without my integrity I am nothing.

[ShesRad80]

I wouldn't and in the end if he didn't know, I would still know.

[gothbxtch]

assuming i have a partner, no, i wouldn’t do that unless we’re poly or the relationship is open.

[Nikki1989]

Didn't care and would never find out are two vastly different situations.

[clampfan101]

I would not. In fact I’d prefer that she did care.

[KrakenAttackin]

There are a lot of liars in this poll.

[WhitneySnow]

No..