If your partner got someone else pregnant, would you be with them?

[tempirl2012]

My now ex boyfriend gotten someone pregnant while we were together and now he wants to get back with me. He says that it was a mistake and that he will never take care of that baby; he only wants to be around me and my daughter. ( my daughter isn't his by the way) . but i did stay with him knowing about this baby mom. If your partner gotten someone else pregnant, Would you stay? I mean i was with him for 5 years but he's been trying to talk to this baby mom since they were 14. But he said that she didn't like him... I don't know. But i always find myself driving down her street to make sure they're not together.

[OlderAndWiser]

There's SO MUCH wrong here!

1. My now ex boyfriend gotten someone pregnant while we were together and now he wants to get back with me. So you were broken up for some time, and things didn't work out with the other girl, so he wants to come back to his second choice.

2. He says that it was a mistake and that he will never take care of that baby; so he is also an irresponsible person.

3. he only wants to be around me and my daughter. And that is probably the same thing he said to the other girl when he was trying to make that work.

4. but i did stay with him knowing about this baby mom. You don't need to repeat your mistake.

5. I mean i was with him for 5 years and this is his idea of commitment?

6. but he's been trying to talk to this baby mom since they were 14. So fucking what?

7. But he said that she didn't like him... I don't know. Maybe because he is a self-centered, irresponsible manipulator.

8. But i always find myself driving down her street to make sure they're not together. Torturing yourself won't make it better.

[AviatorTom]

He has a responsibility to the child he created. That he doesn't see that is much more important than whether you should take him back. He is showing a total lack of caring for anyone but himself. You can do better than that.

[BlackBeauty90]

Do you have no self respect?

1 - he CHEATED on you. You ONLY found out because of a child. So ask yourself how many others did he cheat on you with? Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.

2 - he doesn't want to take responsibility for his child. So he's less than a good for nothing LOSER. WHY keep such low life trash around your daughter?

3 - He has a biological child doesn't care for, wants to take care of yours. Yeah right. He is LYING trying to sleep with you. His words are valueless, mean less than NOTHING.

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Stay with him if you wanna be treated like some simple minded twit & expose your daughter to a toxic setting so she grows up thinking she's got little to no value for men.

If you had self respect you'd kick this guy out on the curb with the rest of the TRASH.

[BlackBeauty90]

@tempirl2012

[Anemone978]

No!! I think that is the only thing I would not forgive from my partner.. He can't have a kid running around in the world somewhere that he made while he was with me.. no way..
And the fact he says he isn't gonna raise or look after the kid says a lot about him and you.. and it is not good.

[Finchie40]

Well he clearly cheated on you if he got another girl pregnant while he was with you , so my question to you is why are
You still with him? Dump his cheating ass a find
Yourself someone that wouldn’t cheat on you

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No. If he got someone pregnant while we were together, he can never touch me nor see nor see me again.

[Avicenna]

Is this a serious question? Tell this cheating fool not to contact you again.

[RoseySarah]

No I need trust in my relationship and he clearly broke it and you won't ever trust him again!

Why be with him again? For comfort or him being nice to your daughter?

Him saying he will care less about that baby shows how much he really cares about your daughter! No matter how good he is with her or time he spends you know it's just to sleep with you!

If given a chance he will be with the baby mommy!

[HippoDino]

So he cheated on you, and then is telling you he has no interest in taking care of his kid he just wants to be with you... your dating a manchild who has no respect for you and takes no accountability for his actions. You really should dump him.

[catarecute]

poor other baby i feel sorry he has a dad like that.

[Surely]

If he doesn’t want to take care of his own flesh and blood. What makes you think that he really l wants to take care of yours?

[BlackBeauty90]

He doesn't care for her daughter. Just lying on the hopes of her being dumb enough to take him back.

I mean it's a no brainer.

[Surely]

@BlackBeauty90 My thoughts exactly! He sticks around because Tempril is the best he has at the moment!

[Drumlin2001]

Forgetting his cheating. Would you want to be with someone who would so willingly abandon his child? You're a parent, would you abandon your kid?

[Joshydavid25]

Don't get back with him.. Especially if he says he won't take care of any of his children.. That's a red flag right there.. He should take responsibility for his child even if he does want to get back with you..

[Ms_Facesitter]

No. If he did that during the relationship, it's cheating. I will leave and pregnancy wouldn't matter. Cheating is cheating.

[EmmaMary]

Hell would need to fucking freeze over first.

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't see how she COULD get someone else pregnant!

[LiamJHayden]

If my hypothetical partner got pregnant I'd dump her. No, not cruel. I am congenitally sterile.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure. I'm so in love with my boyfriend that I just might. I know that may seem like low self esteem but I love him a lot.

[jeffend888]

Chaos just seems to find you.

You might want to think about why.

[Jdodkfndosn]

You can cross out the word partner in your question and replace it with boyfriend/husband.

[Guido]

Trust is a key component of a relationship. Cheat and the trust is gone and so is she. I would never stay with someone I couldn't trust.

[RingOfFire]

That would be no. I would not stay with a woman who got someone else pregnant. 😏

[Luckycharms12]

He should take care of the child make him more of man if he did

[lorenzomichael]

Ghee let me think.🤔🤔 FUCK NO! I tell them Good luck. Then I would tell them to go fuck themselves.