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What is it supposed to feel like when you find someone to love?

I guess what I'm asking is, is it supposed to be breathtaking and vibrant? Or is the occasional warm, fuzzy feeling enough?

I met this guy and we have been chatting. he's nice and all. he's kind and caring, which is something I've never had before in a partner. He's charming, its clear that he really likes me.
But, I don't really feel a spark. No butterflies or anything. Don't really miss him if we don't talk.

I'm worried that I have an unrealistic standard of love. here's a nice guy who wants to be with me and I feel like throwing it away because he isn't sweeping me off my feet.
I think the trouble is, I've had a past boyfriend who made me feel all girlish and tingly and I wanted to speak to him all the time. It obviously didn't work out tho.

So what is love really supposed to feel like? When/if you met the person you intend on spending your life with what did that feel like?
What is it supposed to feel like when you find someone to love?
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