Would you be ok with your partner having sex with someone else , if you didn’t want sex anymore?

[Finchie40]

You tell your partner you love them and don’t want to break up but you have no desire for sex anymore and you keep denying their advances which is very selfish of you , so is it selfish if your partner goes and finds a side piece , to fulfill them? What are your thoughts on this? This is why most relationships end or affairs occur , you can’t with hold sex from your partner and expect them to with hold their sexual drive , it’s not fair to your partner that their wants aren’t being met , if you can’t compromise with your partner then that’s a selfish decision on your part sorry to say , if you can’t handle them screwing someone else then you are best to break up with them and let them go find someone that wants to fulfill them , So many girls pull this shit with their men and wonder why they get cheated on , if a girl starts with holding sex from me I will let her know that if shit doesn’t change I am out cuz I have feelings and wants as well , it’s not fair to me that my sexual wants aren’t being met so I will find it elsewhere , we weren’t t put on Earth to be someone’s convenience if you can’t compromise with your partner then you are best to go your separate ways , or accept the fact that you will be cheated on cuz you are the one destroying your relationship

[DizzyDesii]

The fck i look like being okay with that?

Hell to the nawl. If im not enough then please leave me for good and go get whatever it is that you’re looking for. Last time i went through some even remotely similar shit was in high school when my first boyfriend asked if it was okay to get head from someone else since i had no interest in going down at the time. Just disrespectful

[SnakeBoop]

If I said no, then he would be cheating. Cheating makes him trash. I don't date trash so he'd be dumped anyway. Problem is solved.

Plenty of couples do not actively have sex lives. there's even a couple of dating platforms dedicated to such endeavours.
Anyone who thinks sex is the be all and end all of a relationship has some red flags a'wavin' and some internal issues they should probably sort out.

[Kaneki05]

Oh 100% didn't think to much on such a easy answer. Just cause I stop my sexual urges don't mean I should force them to be like me.

[ColHathi]

No, probably not. I imagine I'd rather she ended the relationship then. Regardless, masturbation is an option.

[Confusedashell123]

If both parties don’t want the same thing whether that be sex or whatever they have to either find middle ground or it is fair to breakup after having the discussion. I don’t advocate cheating. I just think that a conversation should be had first

[Finchie40]

Yea I am speaking after it has been addressed and nothing has changed , I would tell her it’s over and move on , or if I end up having sex with another girl I would end the relationship , that would be my answer that I don’t value my partner

[Anonymous]

I partner and I have very regular/frequent sex. That would completely change for us if I ever found out he was sleeping with another woman.

[Juxtapose]

That would not happen with me because even if you took away all my sexual desire I would still want to see her get off and I would just use my mouth.

[billmunch]

Personally, I don't mind

[Fireguy17]

no. not at all.

[Agape93]

Yeap