So, recently was our 5 years and 5 months anniversary ( we agreed to celebrate it as we missed the chance to celebrate the 5 years one ) and he said will make a nice day for us. In that evening it happend that we had an argument and took a pause for about 2 hrs. After we calmed down I tried to initiate the sex and he rejected me... my mood was strong and I also wanted to do it as part of celebrating the anniversary but the reason for not doing it was that he had some work to do. For a few more hours I waited and hoped to do it , and I also begged while he still rejected saying that will do the next day.
Usually I understand him too but this time it was so important to me that we do it in that night and the rejection hurt me and made me feel so undesired. It's rarely happening but that night I had that very strong mood and having to resist it just because he says " no" hurt even more. Since he works from home he could at least take a break especially considering that he promised me a nice anniversary , which turned out to be a very dissapointing one.
Sorry if the post was too detailed.
