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I've found that in general, men and women do not "fall in love" together but rather one of the two will try to pursue or attract the other with a relationship in mind (or sex, if you're that kind of person). Furthermore, most would agree that is in someway more difficult to woo a pretty girl vs one who isn't quite so pretty.

That said, is there any objective difference between successfully courting an attractive woman and a more plain one (as a guy)?


If the answer is no, then likely the difficulty is that a man's confidence is affected, creating uncertainty and self-doubt. This is by far the most attractive option since it gives hope, but is it realistic?

If the answer is yes, than perhaps an attractive woman is intentionally pickier about her choice of romantic partners, knowing that she is in demand

I ask because I've grown increasingly sick of the invisible wall of separation that exists between me and some girls, simply because of some of my facial imperfections. I despise the thought of accepting a lower standard, or that I would have to hope that a beautiful girl would happen to have low enough standards to include me. It feels like being locked in a cage. I just want a girlfriend whom I can truly call beautiful without reservation so that I don't have to keep half-lying.

I've had a hard time dealing with women lately and i'm curious if it is something about myself as opposed to how i go about it.

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My life in a nutshell-
I am a 20 year old who works two full time jobs and ride a SportBike. I work my first job in the morning for the office of a moving company and my second in the late afternoon and into the night as a specialty CareGiver for children and young adults with Autism and Down Syndrome. I do have a unrelenting love for the thrill of danger and am that guy who flys down the highway at 120 and seems to have a death wish by doing stupid shit like wellies at 70mph and other things people would never even dare think of doing. There is something that can only be found from putting yourself in the craziest positions that can't be found elsewhere. Think of it as the adrenaline junkies way of getting high. Doing something that literally has you sitting there going "OMFG I ALMOST DIED!" is so exhilarating. I don't drink or do any drugs so this is my uh... weed i guess. You just can't beat a police chase! I've been caught before when i pushed my bike so far once i burnt out the clutch during a chase and the officer caught up and literally asked why i stopped then told me to take care of my bike and took off. Don't misunderstand people! They love the thrill of the chase just as much as we love it! I have calmed down on it lately as arizona drivers are being overly aggressive and these fuckers down here would downright kill you without thinking twice. I've busted off one too many mirrors because i mean shit! If they don't use them and almost kill me then i don't think they need them. What do you think? Otherwise, i am a very confident person and work for everything i own. Other then my thrill seeking behavior and am a rather chivalrous man though i do love being an asshole to women sometimes for the fun of it. They love it too! Anyway, the point is would this scare you off or would you go for it?