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I had sex with this guy who was my friend first but then good friends with my ex. My ex and I had a really bad break up and friend group split. The guy I slept with was both our friend and he really liked his friends on my exs side of the split.

He barely replied to me after having sex. Then eventually did I asked was it terrible? He said no best thing I’ve seen in ages. Then I said did I feel terrible my ex told me he stretched me out loads and he said no “felt plenty” of tight. He just didn’t want to stir things between me and my ex and lose his friends.

The sex barely lasted 5 mins and he constantly had to pull out and start again. It was really short.

Is this the truth? Why would he have done it in the first place. He also told both his close friends about it.

Him and I were friends years before I ever met my ex.

He also kept trying to see me loads before sleeping with me. Then after sleeping with me went distant.

Was it the ties with the friends or he found the sex/me terrible?

My best friend moved to another country and i dont have much friends.

only like 2 girl friends that took hours to reply one message, ex boyfriend that i shouldn't meet again.

I wish i can have a close friend to share things with…

i ve been using chat room app for years… it sometimes makes me feel less lonely…

just sometimes…

Hey everyone so my boyfriend left me 2 weeks ago for personal problems. He was tired, sad, and felt bored. He swore I was not the issue and has made an effort to stay friends. the first week of being friends we hung out, held hands, kissed etc. It was like we were dating with no label and we both agreed it needed to stop. So we did. He didn't know what he wanted, he said he felt numb and depressed. A few nights ago he said leaving me made him feel even worse and that I was not the issue at all but that he knew he couldn't get into a relationship with me until he figured out his issue. He said he wanted to prioritize his mental health. I was super upset but also really understanding. I have gone minimal contact with him for about 2 days now and have done my best to give him space and distance to figure out his life. Today he invited me to dinner, said he had an extremely hard day and wanted a hug and to see me. I understand we broke up but we have love for each other and he has stayed loyal completely anyways. Do I go and risk getting my hopes up? Do I go and remind myself its just a friend and not expect anything. Or, do I say no and risk him being upset or thinking i've moved on.