Should I meet up with this other guy?

[Candycanelove]

I went on two dates with this one guy and we had sex on the second date don't judge me. I'm planning to see him again.

There is another guy that has asked me out on a date (I am not going to have sex with the second guy).

First guy: He has his own place and a decent job

Second guy: He lives with his ex's parents (he also has a decent job) and he has a daughter with his ex. His ex is in a relationship with another guy.

I still live with my parents so I feel like the second guy would really understand my situation. I haven't told the first guy that I still live at home. Because I'm afraid that he might not want to see me anymore.

The first guy told me he told his best friend about me which is really odd to me.

[PrettyPriya]

No, and I will tell you why. Dating more than one person at a time isn't really fair to them in my opinion. Taking the time to get to know one person is hard enough, adding more is just not worth it. Plus, I don't want to act like people are competing for my attention. They can get clingy.

I would just get to know the guy you have already gone on a couple of dates better. if you think you already know him and feel like you need to see what else is out there, that isn't the guy for you then.

He likely told his best friend about you because of one of two reasons. You had sex with him pretty quick and he bragged to a friend or he really likes you and is proud of himself that he scored a date.

He likely thinks you are exclusive, even if you haven't discussed. I would sit down and talk to him and make sure he knows you are going to date more than one person if you haven't already. That is only fair.

[Candycanelove]

No, he told his best friend about me before we had sex.

[PrettyPriya]

@Candycanelove Okay, then I would say it is because he had a really good first date and was excited to share. That is my guess.

[Candycanelove]

But I'm afraid he might not like me because I still live with my parents.

[PrettyPriya]

@Candycanelove Well, that shouldn't factor into whether he likes you or not. There are any number of reasons someone might be still living with their parents or had gone back to living with them. He needs to like YOU for YOU or he isn't worth your time.

[20yearsolder]

Go on and date you want to. You're not committed to guy number 1. He's no committed to you

[Sandeeppingping]

Bro... We're guys we don't care if you still live with your parents

[Candycanelove]

What does being a guy have to do with it?

[Sandeeppingping]

Women care if a guy still lives with his parents, men don't that's what it has to do with it, so don't worry about it basically

[Jenny-Marie]

Don't judge a man on material things. If the 1st guy is telling his mate about you, (positive things) it is good. If he was discussing you as a sexual conquest just dump him, he isn't worth it.

[Guy13]

It’s a risk. You could easily end up with nothing.

[Guy13]

All the first guy is going to think is “this woman.. living at home…acting like 15… what’s wrong with her…he can have her.”

[Guy13]

Second guy finds out…”I already have one child to raise…I don’t need two.”

[Candycanelove]

So you're basically a troll get lost.

[Cecinene]

I guess you go with the second one

[Candycanelove]

Why go with the second one?

[Cecinene]

Even if he has an Ex and also a child at least he still understands you

[In_Trance]

Sure, why not