So about 3 weeks ago, I was walking around alone at the mall & a random guy came up to me & said ‘excuse me’. Once I realised he was talking to me, I responded & he told me that he just wanted to tell me I looked beautiful. I thought it was sweet so I just let him continue talking to me. He then just started walking around with me & chatting to me. He kept mentioning how I’m his type & that he finds me very attractive, & I was just trying to be quiet about that topic, because I didn’t find him attractive at all. I found him to just be a nice friendly guy that was good to talk to. I politely continued the conversation with him since I wasn’t in a hurry, & it was nice to have someone to talk to since I was alone at the mall. He then told me after about 40 minutes that he had to go, so he gave me his number & told me to message him sometime. I took about 2 weeks to decide whether I should or shouldn’t. For a while, I was thinking not to, because I was worried it would make him think I wanted something more with him since that’s what he seemed to want. However, I finally decided to just message him, because he was a nice guy & I felt bad knowing that he would probably never get to see or talk to me again if I didn’t message him, so I thought even though I’m not into him, I’ll just message him, & if he flirts with me or tries to initiate anything, I can Just explain to him that I only see him as a friend. He really wants to take me out on an ice skating date as well as out to eat, & I’m now thinking whether I should go or not. I’m worried that he wants more, but I just see him as a friend. I’ve moved back to my hometown after about 8 years of not living here, so I don’t have any friends here anymore & kinda feel like it wouldn’t hurt to go with him because I like ice skating, haven’t been in a long time, & could use some company. Would it be a good idea for me to go? Or should I ask him what his intentions are first & make it clear that I only wanna go out as friends?
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