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These are things she did to him in the past. Are these good reasons for him and anyone to hate my mother as their future MIL?

- Suddenly excluded him for practicaclly the whole month of Dec... refusing to introduce him to friends; he felt insulted and hurt with that action

- Badmouth about him to others and defamed his character, tarnished his image/reputation

- Literally made my father and others believe for years that he was a manipulative player that took my innocence and somewhat of a pervert

- Literally kicked him out of the house, told him that I'm not available, making him return home, which is 1-2 hours far. Then lied to me and others by saying he never stops by to visit anymore. She kept that lie for over 8 years.

- Took me with her to our homecountry, where I didn't want to go. I had the option to stay and fight for my relationship but mom kept saying ''I gotta take you away from him anyhow''.

- Issued him an insincere apology over the phone while expecting him to bring gifts when he comes (so he can marry me, take me back to FL... and help her with a visa too) and still holding that dirty image of him, still keeping the lie that he never visited me

- Insulted him once on my b-day, call him a loser and even said ''when my daughter goes back to her country, she'll find a way better man than you'' with a mocking tone

- Laughing and bragging to others that she made him cry and imitating the way he cried; saying that a man that cries is weak and the worst

- When he called, she purposely would tell him to come over and visit our places (knowing very well he had little money and there is a slim chance we can be together) as if mocking him.

- Basically my mother wanted to keep me away from my happiness. She purposely did everything to tarnish his image. He obviously hated her for the longest and only recently forgave her not because of her but because he wants to be at peace with himself, not live with the hatred anymore.

My boyfriend broke up with me four days ago. The day before my phone died and he thought I was ignoring him and had a panic attack. Thought I didn’t want him anymore, was sick of him or didn’t want him. I said that wasn’t the case I cared for him and kept reassuring him. The next day he was suppose to stay the night for the first time in 7 months. I still live with my parent and they just allowed it. I’ve been going down to his place (his parents place) every second weekend instead. We are long distance I feel like this was part of the reason and he wanted to move in after 5 months of dating and asked for three months I said I wasn’t ready maybe in a year. The day of the break up he said I made him happy, I was a great girlfriend, cared deeply for me and he seen a future with me. He wasn’t sure he was in love with me. We talked four days later and he said he thinks he is surprising his emotions I said I did the same in before the break up I was scared to say I love you. I offered to move down in September and make it work we went back and forth he said he didn’t wanna take the risk because we are unsure of where we are as people and didn’t think we could handle the extra stress of moving out, focusing on our relationship and extra responsibilities. He agreed with me I needed to live my life more before settling down and he had to deal with his demons. He said he misses me too and we started to carry on casually for a bit afterwards but agreed to give each other some space (2-3 days to think). Do we have a chance to get back together? I love him so much and don’t want to lose him and agreed to be his friend told him I wanted to be more and I’ll always love him and be there for him. He said he would rule out dating again, he cared deeply and he’ll always be there for me.

Do we have a chance? 🥺