What can I do for him today to make his life easier?
What can I do today to make him smile?
What ways can I effectively show my respect, love and devotion to him every single day, without using my words?
I wake up in the early mornings happily and sleepily thinking to myself how much I care about the man I choose to love and be with. How with him, I feel safe. Supported. Comfortable. Stable. Happy.
But as his wife, his lover and the future mother of his children how can I make sure that I am staying true to myself, whilst also being all that he could need? And moreover, what is it that he needs from me? How can I make sure that these needs are fulfilled?
I am fortunate enough that I was raised with my parents both being in the picture. I also had the pleasure of being raised to know my Great Grandmother who was by definition the most traditional and wonderful woman a little girl could look up to. I grew up in church, I learned manners, I learned servitude.
You may think to yourself, this woman is getting off track. I assure you, I am not. You see, when I was a little girl I remember being taught about keeping up the home, cooking, dressing in a way that was classy and pretty without being too provocative. I remember being taught how it was important that you keep your legs crossed or together at all times because it is ladylike. I never talked back to my elders, I never participated in any activity that I did not have permission to attend. I never even shared a kiss with a boy until I was told it was okay for me to start dating. And even with all of these teachings and restrictions, I was absolutely happy! My parents rarely got mad at me, I had some good friends, and I stayed away from activities that would have put me in compromising situations.
All of those things go directly into why I am who I am. Why does it matter in a marriage? It matters because by me doing the things that I have done my entire life, the things that make me feel happy and accomplished are all things that my husband needs from me! The restrictions I had as a child were a perfect way to introduce me to a set of core values and stewardship in a relationship dynamic. All I have to do is be the woman I was brought up to be.
I am blessed in that my husband works full time. He has a full time and part time job, he works long hours and is gone for the better portion of the day, most days.
I recently was able to acquire a job as an independent contractor to clean community bathrooms twice a day in exchange for not having to pay rent for our home. In doing so, I am able to clean the bathrooms an hour or so a day, and spend the rest of the day cooking, cleaning, playing dress up, running errands and have the free time to work on my personal hobbies, fitness, renovation, organizing… etc. my husband takes care of the remaining living expenses and together we have created a Harmonious household and love life.
I wake up in the early morning around 5:00am roll over and kiss my husband good morning. I make him a cup of coffee, pack his lunch make sure he has everything he needs before he leaves, tell him to drive safe then give him a hug and kiss goodbye.
When he comes home he has a clean sanctuary, food already prepared, and a well dressed and happy wife to come home to. Not to mention the unbridled access to love in the bedroom.
I do all of these things that make him happy, and in return he does all of the strenuous work outside of the home to provide for both of us, and that makes me happy!
It REALLY is that simple.
we as women were created to be the nurturing half. It’s love that fuels all the things that I do for him, and because we are so strong as a unit our lives together are fulfilling and exciting. He’s my strong, hardworking, rowdy, motivating, assertive and loving leader. I wouldn’t trade what we have for anything.
always with love,
the traditional lady.
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Absolutely wonderful! Women like you are a diamond in a sea of rotten rotten eggshells. I wouldn't be surprised if you ever got slammed with the "pick me girl" term coming from the bitter feminazi broads. But jokes on them though, while they complain about being single and ready a life living with their cats, women like yourself are happily married in a healthy nuclear family that includes a man and a woman (as it should be).
You remind me of my own girl. She herself says that she never takes relationship advice from single people or feminists. She takes care of me as much as I take care of her.
"I recently was able to acquire a job"
You're no traditional woman if you got a job
Makeup and tattoo are not traditional either
Using social media is not a tradition woman trait
Cry me a river. Hoe.
You are the hoe.
I am a pure virgin unlike you who is the actual prostitute here. Wearing makeup and trashy tattoos like a stripper🤢
My wedding ring is trashy stripper? You really are a dumb bimbo. My husband likes it when I am manicured, hair and makeup done and dressed well. I cater to what HE finds attractive because that’s what keeps the relationship strong. Imagine if I didn’t do everything he liked… yikes. We do things for each other because we are married. Correct, I’m not a virgin I'm married. He can get it whenever he wants, no payment required… so that whole prostitution argument is funny 😆. I bet you’re just another bitch that I’ve had to deal with on another thread. Why else would you be anonymous.
Trashy old lady with tattoos and makeup. If you were really traditional tou would be doing house work instead of arguing around here. You are not traditional. You are just a fake garbage bimbo wannabe traditional woman. Even i am more traditional than you. I feel bad for your hisband. Having to suffer a loose pussy everyday. Sad
House work is already done, was done by 5am this morning. I’m an early riser, gotta go get my workout in now, and see my honey on his lunch break. Yep, I’m aging but, I’ve already won. I’ve already got my forever, I spend my free time making his life better and taking care of my body 🤷🏼♀️ Can’t get much better!
For sure you won by getting a trashy ring tattoo 😝
I bet it's night time and you have to get going to service men's cocks. Bye
The world needs more women like you. A lot more.
I’m trying to steer some women in the right direction before they become one of the lost souls… but there’s just so dang many of them, and it breaks my heart for the men. It breaks my heart that these women who have given away their bodies to so many different people will never know, experience, or maybe even see what real love is like between a man and woman.