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My brother in law is a great guy but has always dealt with insecurity...

He's 5'10

He's really fit and I've always kind of been jealous of that the

Has a full time job. He's making an effort to gain new skills at work, but he never went to college

He volunteers for charities every now and then

He has a dog and loves her to death, spends almost of time with her.

Only had one girlfriend experience in his late teens but other than that hasn't had sex or any other relationships and is still a virgin. He doesn't do casual or hookups.

He's 28 years old.

Has a great personality and very kind.

Often very self conscious

Has a car but still lives at home. Can't afford to get his own place yet.

So..

Dateable or undateable?

Just a basic question, in my experience my current girlfriend was talking to another guy behind my back, she was gonna go to a bar party with me for an event but I ended up not being able to go, she ended making a plan to go to a guys hotel room instead & I found out, we fought & we broke up that night & she tried to get back together again the next day, then the same guy invited her to a pre-game Christmas party & she said she was going & I told her I was uncomfortable, they showed up to the same bar together & I beat him up (wasn’t a good idea), she ended up sleeping with him that night (I know because I showed up to her house, they were both in their underpants when I showed up to her house for my clothes I’ve lent her) after the night at the bar. She tried taking me back the next day (& It’s a little gross I was with someone else & got her to answer the phone for me to say I’m busy lol) & I ended up taking her back. She being saying we weren’t together when these things happened for months but I still feel cheated on & betrayed & I don’t know what to do how to approach the situation because she doesn’t let me talk about it & says it’s a long time ago & pushed my feelings about it to the side for half a year & I’m very unhappy with her (but I’m more scared of being unhappy without her). Since the second issue happened I’ve been less committed to her & flirting with other girls & making new relationships (I have not had sex, kiss or physically cheat) because I don’t feel safe or happy in my relationship & she’s trying to tell me that me flirting with other girls is cheating though. I’m just wondering if what she did would be cheating because she says it’s not & expects me to forgive her for it but I don't know how too (& I feel more foolish by the day)?