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Present situation: I dated a girl for a month and had sex with her. She then asked us to stop dating, but keeps calling and asking me to do stuff and acting like a girlfriend but won't kiss me anymore or say anything affectionate. What is going on with her?

Backstory: This girl and I work for the same company and see each other daily. About a month and a half ago she initiated contact through a friend of hers who asked if I was single. We talked and eventually went out. The girl was quick to start being affectionate and we made out a lot on our first date. We went on numerous dates that first week and eventually slept together. I grew somewhat attached and did things to move us toward a relationship (small gifts, notes, talk about being a couple). She said she didn't want to be a couple yet because of a recent breakup with boyfriend of 4 years that she still talks to (and who still wants to make it work). She also is confused about her work situation and even is considering moving and staying single for a while (told me all this on the same night, before having sex later on). A week later, she says we moved too quickly and wants to stop dating. I say ok and back off. She immediately starts engaging me again (calls, texts, work IM). Yesterday she asks me to lunch (we go), then also asks me to dinner and a movie. We go out and hang and have fun. At end of night (in my truck), she asks me to give her a hug. She hugs me deeply for like 40 seconds. I try to kiss her and she doesn't respond. Says good night and leaves truck. Later says the kiss thing was no problem and not to worry about it. Continues contacting me, calling to check in, asking what I'm doing, flirting and making sometimes sexy jokes about us. What is going on? Is this going anywhere? Am I getting "friend-zoned" or becoming a "substitute boyfriend" for her ex whose lives in another country? Should I keep being friendly or try to move on?

I haven't done this in a while and I'm starting to question my resolve. I don't really talk to alotta females nowadays, I haven't even dated many girls cuz I had trust issues for a minute or 2. I see women looking but I'm not sure if it's a look of sexual interest or if it's a look of (wow he's ugly) look. 😂😂😂 a lot of womrn say I'm easy to talk to and they feel safe and secure around me.. But a lot of women seem to lie to me about themselves like they need to put on a show for me... Now I'm not the nicest guy, I often have aids cruel humor so the things I find funny are usually mean, like people falling or getting In trouble or losing a game...
But I am loyal, I'm sweet, and I'm the type to do my best to make everyone in the room happy.😄

To to this question you don't have to post if you have nothing to say, if you want to call me ugly or lame or anything then that's chill to... I just wanna know...

If we met in real life where would put me? Would you place me in the friend zone? Or would I could I be boyfriend material?

I know I've hurt some feelings before on GAG and if you were one of those individuals than I apologize for my behavior, I was angry at the moment but just know I do don't hate you...

(But this is option is for those of you that dislike me)

would you just not even asscoxiste with me?😞