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So this really shouldn't be that big of a deal and I'm wondering if I'm making it more than what it is. I hate velvet. Like it seriously disgusts me. It's the texture. I have no idea why but for whatever reason when my fingers touch it I literally feel as if someone has taken their nails and raked them down a chalkboard. ekkk

This is the deal my sister is getting married in Dec. I asked that she could pick a place where I can try on as well because I don't live in the same state as she does. However last week when she went to look for another wedding dress (now she doesn't like hers because someone else said they didn't like it) she brought all the other bridesmaids and they tried on dresses. She sent me photos of all of them trying on a dress and asked my opinion.

It's velvet. You can't wear a bra. I'm small with broad shoulders, meaning that going without a bra I'll look like a child. It isn't just that however it's also the cut of the dress. I'm a personal stylist and I know that this wouldn't flatter my body type AT ALL. I'm an inverted triangle. I have little to no curve. I nicely said it looked great on my cousin (hourglass body) but it wasn't my favorite dress.

My mother then blows up my cell phone wanting to know why I'm hurting my sisters feelings by not liking the dress EVERYONE else likes. I said that I find it shocking because she, my sister, and my cousin all know how much I hate velvet. I have to wear winter gloves to fold velvet shirts we get in our store during winter. I told her that I can't understand why nobody said anything. My mother comes up with, "It's your sisters wedding not yours." My father is now blowing up my phone wanting to know why I'm starting a war? wtf?

I've spoken to my sister. She said she knew that I wouldn't like the dress and I'm slim so whatever. In her own words, "It's my wedding so you have to wear what I want. I like that dress."

Am I being bitchy?