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How do I stop being negative?

I feel awful because it affects everyone I'm around. I am a fairly constrained person, but largely pessimistic. I know that it has a bad influence on several areas of my life. I know it's not good at all but I don't know...
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Why is he flirting with me again?

Simple, I got a new cute co worker a few months back and we flirted hard. We thought he was going to be temporary but it turns out he permant and a level above me in the company. So technically my boss but not a...
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Date Yourself: The Cure for Everything

I will always love you You are a beautiful person You mean so much to me These are the words we love A hand on your face Or stroking your hair Arms holding you These are the touches we crave Rubbing your back...
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Is he jealous, does he want to be with me, or just not want me to be with anyone?

So there is this guy I really liked, I told him I really liked him and we slept together, he proceeded to ghost me, I moved on, months later we found ourselves working alongside of each other, my new partner, my ghost and...
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Guys never want anything serious with me. Am I still single because of my skin color?

All my white friends apart from a few have boyfriends and I’m starting to think my skin colour is holding me back it seems like all guys go crazy for blonde white girls with light eyes. And will make them their...
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Hot and cold? Lots of eye contact and then ignoring me and avoiding eye contact?

I work with a younger guy who is my mentor. I’m 28 and he’s 25, we are both scientists and I’ve been at the current job for just under 2 months. I've noticed that his pupils dilate when he looks at me and when we talk...
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How I was able to get through my Haphephobia: Fear of a mans touch!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haphephobia While living in that super hot apartment for my first year of college, my roommates wanted to set me up with someone that they thought would be the perfect match. I was terrified,...
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How can I beat back my anxiety in person? How can I translate online success to in person success? My brain still hasn’t made the connection yet?

The truth is I’m far less anxious online. But It’s virtually the same thing in practice! I’m beginning to recognize that I’m the only one that’s been holding myself back this entire time! It isn’t that...
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How do so start showing my emotions around my boyfriend?

I’m used to holding back and not showing my emotions. My dad and sister had anger issues so it led to abuse if so didn’t stay neutral. My mom was also emotionally and verbally abusive. Most men I’ve dated didn’t like...
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What should I do if I'm in love with my childhood friend and she seems uncertain of her feelings for me?

For a long time, I've had very strong feelings for a certain girl. We've known each other since we were kids, and I knew even back then that she loved me. Only that there was a very big problem that I'd prefer not to talk...
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Ever feel like things appear to be going so well, but your really just barely holding it together?

I feel like this sometimes, I will often just fake it and focus on positive energy rather than dwell on negative while pushing through it. Others will say they are jealous, that I'm so lucky, that everything just...
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Holding hands during our fourth date, is she uncomfortable?

I held her hands, the casual way. Not the interlocking type. Initially we were able to hold for 5-10 min during a hike. I always take it that if she 'releases' her thumb, it's a sign she wants to stop holding hands. We...
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Why do I cry every time I think of my boyfriend?

im not an emotional person and he keeps trying to figure out how I feel about him but I can tell him anything, im constantly holding back
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I think my ( 26M) best friend's girlfriend (20F) is getting too attached to me?

So, she is a girl with a lot of personal issues. She ran away from home at 16, she slept around for money, she was forced by one of her partners into prostitution because otherwise he said he will dump her. Anyway,...
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I am NOT defined by my Scars "A Survivors Account"

Caution is advised, continue at your own risk. It is not going to be pretty. Rape is a horrible crime perpetrated against men and women , that has a life long effect on its victims, long after the legal system is...
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The guy I'm seeing is seeing other girls, what should I do?

When i first met this guy he told me i was the only girl i was talking to. He said he did talk to a few girls before me but after getting my number he said he hasn't been into any other girls and thinks im number 1. Well...
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Yes, Celebrities Do Come On Sites Like These

Relax. I’m not gonna tell you I’ve met a celebrity on GaG. At least not yet anyway. And if I did I wouldn’t spill their beans either. But I do want to say that they do actually come on sites like these in disguise, and...
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What's holding you back from dating?

For me I don’t believe women can love. I’m very lucky and blessed. I feel women only look for shallow reasons to date. Looks, money etc. Women are very sly, they don’t love. They can only love their children that’s...
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For me I don’t believe women can love. I’m very lucky and blessed. I feel women only look for shallow reasons to date. Looks, money etc. Women are very sly, they don’t love. They Show More
It’s to do with some/all points I’ve mentioned
It’s to do with other things
Nothing is holding me back
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Is he still interested or is ghosting/fading out?

So a month ago I met this guy on tinder. We talked every day and after a week he asked me out. We go on a first date it went really really well to the point mid date he asked me for a second one. The next week we go on...
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For all the Black girls here I have to know if you believe in it or not?

My girlfriend and me went out yesterday. Andfor about 5 years she has taken karate. She got into it with this Black girl and it got bad. They're both the same height, like 5'6, but the Black chick weighs more. So my...
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My girlfriend and me went out yesterday. Andfor about 5 years she has taken karate. She got into it with this Black girl and it got bad. They're both the same height, like 5'6, but the Show More
Not a black girl so I can't really say
Yeah I do
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More no than yeah
No and this is exactly why
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