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She does not have a large amount of friends (opposite of me), but she has very very close friends (again opposite of me). The main reason is that I'm one of those... "nice guys" who most people like... but I know this so I keep tons of secrets to myself so that people don't take advantage of me. She is fairly shy, which is why I try to talk to her in private.

Our conversations usually go like this. by the way I always have to initiate. I say 'hey/hi' she does one of two things. She stops and says hi back or she looks at me briefly and keeps walking. If I'm lucky I have 4 minutes to talk to her before people come around and she leaves. If we keep talking, she barely looks at me, but not in a rude way, more of a shy way. She talks fairly quitely. She's blushed twice out of like 100 times of attempts to talk to her... I just don't know if she likes me or not...

However her best friend has teased me and her before a few times when we did talk and she looked at her best friend like wtf u doing. by the way her best friend and the girl i like are completely opposite. her best friend is the most open book u will ever see.

What do you think?

This is a real thing that is trending and im just trying to see if girls actually think these bodies of these guys are actually hot. I've read comments by women and their main thing is that it's realistic view of men because when you become a dad, you don't have the time to devote to that cut and muscular body. Also that it is showing you're not obsessed with your body spending hours at the gym every week.

Another reason I heard is that girls feel insecure around really muscular guys. Like they still think it's hot to look at but they feel insecure when a guy is fit and muscular and feel the pressure to feel fit too and work out a ton. They also say they would rather cuddle with a little flabby body than rock solid pecs and abs.