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I always thought that the good guys would appreciate a girl that doesn’t come with a lot of baggage. I’ve only had sex and dated one guy, lol I haven’t had sex since and this was over 3 years ago. I feel the opportunity could have happened but I really just don’t have the urge to sleep around. I live alone, I could have had guys over. People say that I’m just a square but I just don’t have the urge. But sometimes I think screw it, I should try to live it up because I’m on the road to being a spinster anyway. I want a quality guy but really guys don’t give me the time of day, I’m told I’m attractive, few of you agreed. But I don’t get approached in person, I’ve tried dating apps only but have not had any luck besides the last guy I dated. Quite frankly, nothing was lucky about that. I felt like I was settling physically and would have preferred to remain a virgin. I don’t care if I never have sex again, I would like a quality guy though. Don’t want kids either, I just worry years down the line I will feel regret for being so antisocial and living an uneventful life. But I just can’t wrap my head around why the kind of guy I want wouldn’t have come around yet, most educated attractive women have no issue getting a date.

He has done this so many times throughout the years. He first choose making music over me and the kids. He’d go away 3 nights a week to do it. Come over to see them. Be with me. Then go back to it.

Then it was photography we split up so he could do that. Even tho he could do both and come back to me. Then eventually he ended up doing that.

Apparently we have issues like me being messy, not communicating well. Then he ends it. Now it’s music he’s choosing over the kids. He’d rather do that then spend time with me and the kids.

Every time he’s had his hobby of music or photography I’d say when’s our time. And he went no I don’t want to do that I don’t want to spend time with you doing things I’d rather do music. He’d rather do his music alone and spend his time alone.

He would rather make his music. Then masterbate. Why wouldn’t he want both to have his hobby and me?

Is it to do wirh in or good enough in his eyes or the sex isn’t? Would he do this to everyone he’s with?