Should I let be boyfriend continue being friends with his ex with all things considered?

Anonymous
I (21F) did not always have an issue with my boyfriend (21M) still being friends with his ex. But then I discovered that he was still jacking off to his ex (which has been confirmed) with old pics and sex tapes from when they were still together. After much time of fighting about him keeping them, him deleting and reinstalling the tapes and pics and then once again deleting them after catching him, I don’t know if I should continue to let them be friends as long as he’s with me. I would also like to mention the fact that he’s admitted he’s still attracted to her (sexually at least). I am not usually the one to get in the way of a friendship, but I think the feelings he has and the fact he’s disregarded how it all makes me feel make it inappropriate. I personally have tried to move on from this and just leave them be and let them be friends, but I feel like seeing the sex tapes in his phone ruined it for me. I feel rage and anxiety every time I see her face or hear her name now, and I don’t know if I can truly move on from this as it has been a few months now and I’m still not over it. Would I be in the wrong for asking him to not be friends with her anymore with all things considered?

BEFORE ANYONE SAYS ANYTHING I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE A DISCLAIMER THAT HE DID NOT WATCH HIS EX’S SEX TAPE BECAUSE I WOULD NOT MAKE ONE WITH HIM. I HAVE AND HE CHOSE TO USE HER’S INSTEAD.
Should I let be boyfriend continue being friends with his ex with all things considered?
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