RANT: 27F who’s known to be a goodie-too-shoes and single, feel like I should let loose but don’t feel the urge?

[Anonymous]

I always thought that the good guys would appreciate a girl that doesn’t come with a lot of baggage. I’ve only had sex and dated one guy, lol I haven’t had sex since and this was over 3 years ago. I feel the opportunity could have happened but I really just don’t have the urge to sleep around. I live alone, I could have had guys over. People say that I’m just a square but I just don’t have the urge. But sometimes I think screw it, I should try to live it up because I’m on the road to being a spinster anyway. I want a quality guy but really guys don’t give me the time of day, I’m told I’m attractive, few of you agreed. But I don’t get approached in person, I’ve tried dating apps only but have not had any luck besides the last guy I dated. Quite frankly, nothing was lucky about that. I felt like I was settling physically and would have preferred to remain a virgin. I don’t care if I never have sex again, I would like a quality guy though. Don’t want kids either, I just worry years down the line I will feel regret for being so antisocial and living an uneventful life. But I just can’t wrap my head around why the kind of guy I want wouldn’t have come around yet, most educated attractive women have no issue getting a date.

Let loose

Don’t let loose

[IMuser]

You see, you were not in wrong. It's always better to have a girl who does not have a lot of past behind and can be with a guy to build the future

The social dynamics and dating market is changing rapidly, making serious relationships a thing of the old.

If you wish to let loose, keep yourself safe and have fun. I guess you deserve it.

[VikingWarLord]

All of this is a SHIIT TEST.
You definitely do want a guy but the type you're hoping to attract isn't the goodie two shoes beta cuck male so you want to cast your hook in some other waters by saying you think it's time to let loose and hope a hotter bad boy type like me will come along and snag it. I have a hunch you're average in looks and you're just scared that a hotter bad boy will cheat with a hotter biitch, but that turns you on at the same time. I have a few more hunches but send me a DM with your best pic (all dolled up, hair done, makeup done, etc.) and I'll tell you if my hunches are right.
I also get the sense you're in some bumfuuck Egypt boonies area like the midwest or south?

[Little_Bumblebee]

If you don't even have the urge, then don't do something you don't want to do.
Stay true to yourself and what feels right.

[mark000h]

There are quality men out there but they're hard to find just like quality women these days. Don't give in to the noise.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

You might have a longer wait and a harder time finding him, but you will find a better guy in the long run by staying true to yourself.

[Djmbbasgerd]

its a shame i havnt got the patience or motivation to read any of thtat cos im srue u made some very intresting info that is very beneficial to my life

[Djmbbasgerd]

no one gives a shit, be a anti slut and feel good about ur self, be a virgin ur whole life and never have fun, then when u die u can tell everyone how great u are because u wasn't a slut, like it will matter then, girls are so intelligent

[Djmbbasgerd]

i bet u are saving urself and not fucking these guys jus so u can feel like ur not a slut and feel good about ur self, lol its so stupid, i know u want to, why holding back? for peoples judgements that won't even matter in a hundred years? LOOL

[magiusX26]

i see one issue. you are waiting for us guys to initiate things.

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[magiusX26]

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[Yourfriend2021]

You shouldn't lower your standards because you haven't met the right person, it's just tough in today's world, you don't have to change.

[Jamie05rhs]

How much time have you invested in the dating apps?

[lycanthrope3]

To find your prince you may need to kiss a few frogs

[Anonymous]

Let loose, you already have baggage.