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When I say animalistic love, I don't mean love with no restraints. I mean love where you will NEVER be happy unless you spend the rest of your days with the object of that love, and being loved back. The type of love where really it isn't even about love anymore, it's about obsession.

That doesn't sound amazing, right? But wait, isn't that what many wildly successfulromance movies and novels are about?

One perfect example is The Tearsmith. This movie focuses on two orphans who fall in love. But the boy falls in love almost a decade before she does, and during that decade he is destroyed internally while trying to control his obsession with her. The Tearsmith ranked #2 in the world for 3 consecutive days.

I understand how it can be a confidence booster/romantic for someone care about you so much, but in my mind obsession is incredibly detrimental to the well-being of the Giver AND the Receiver. Obsession can lead to physical, mental, and emotional abuse against the Receiver and anyone who stands between the Receiver and the Giver. Obsession destroys all parties.

So, what's your opinion?

Okay ladies, say there is this guy who is young, respectful, loving, caring, honest, sweet, affectionate, smart, and decent honest good man who is a smooth talkin kind of guy and has the mindset of the loves perception of what it is supposed to be and perceived to be as “True Love” to have a long lasting relationship with you for eternity for marriage to love you, protect you, honor you, respect you, care for your thoughts and feelings, and only desires a relationship with you.

Now to get in depth of a smooth talkin guy, he tends to come with the most unique words to say that would knock you off your feet and stands out on his own as a rarest of his own breed and kind apart from his peers his own age than the typical guy approach women like “damn, you sexy or you look good type shit, can I get your instagram or number” or what’s good shawty, you got a man… if you do have a man, he’s the kind of guy who doesn’t care and say I’ll take you from him or whatever, you know dudes like that I seen on YouTube who are young dudes in their early 20s or 19 whatever talking like that when a girl clearly is taken and not interested at all.

But this guy I’m speaking of wouldn’t talk or approach a woman like that, he tends to ask how a lady is doing, what is her name, compliment her genuinely, and wants to get to know her genuinely for who she is and learn about her as a person if only she’d be willing or gains an interest in allowing him to in exchange of her wanting to get to know him as well. He wants to know her for who she is inside and not for her body or appearance. He is the kind of guy who prefer the old school kind of love when he holds the door for his lady, write her love letters, bring her favorites flowers or roses 🌹, and having a picnic 🧺 with her in the park.