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Most women seem to think they aren't picky/entitled, but almost every woman I've spoken to (besides a few realistic ones on here, like @JosyJosy, @DizzyDesii, etc;) SAY things that contradict that. They'll ask for Tony-freaking-Stark and then think they're not asking for perfection. And honestly, it gets annoying AF, especially when they complain about "being single," but reject 99.9% of the quality male population. They'll also do all of this while literally bringing nothing to the table other than having a vagina (not "giving up the vagina," just HAVING one). And then when some men like myself call out these entitlements, like the infamous "you can change weight, but you can't change height" counter-argument, they'll huff and puff, but never address said argument or see their demands as "unrealistic" and unfair.

By unrealistic standards; I mean:
- 6'0" to 6'4", minimum height.
- Ego brimming out the ass; enough confidence to wrestle a bear and 100% believe you'll win.
- Earns way more money than her, no matter who she is or what she does for a living.
- Immaculate gym body that requires at least 15 hours a week of exercise.
- Always put her needs first, but without coming off like a simp/beta, somehow.
- Buys her whatever she wants.

Realistic standards would be:
- Any height that isn't significantly shorter than her.
- Isn't too insecure or has realistic flaws.
- Has a job and can pay his own bills.
- Is relatively healthy, even if not in athletic shape, and at least weighs more than her.
- No history of abuse, cheating, crime, or STD's.
- Treats her well and respects her without disrespecting himself.

It seems like most women under 30-35 want the first set, and will only "settle" for the second set when they're too old.

But what do you think?

- Attraction is mostly emotional for a woman as long as she is open to dating in the first place and the guy doesn’t have huge initial red flags.
- She has to feel safe and comfortable around the guy to want to date him. A guy triggers this initially by making her laugh and relaxing her and then by being confident and internally strong.
- It takes time for her to fall in love with him. She has to go away and have space - Do I like him? How do I feel when with him? How do I feel when not with him?
- Having the confidence to communicate interest is also necessary. If a guy fixates on 1 girl and starts subtly chasing her without communicating interest confidently and clearly for weeks or months, it will kill any attraction as she wonders why you’re not making a move even though she can sense the guy likes her and she’ll assume you’re not interested or not confident enough to make a move.
- Girls are constantly subconsciously judging and testing even guy friends. He has to remain internally strong and masculine and continue to make her laugh.
- Attraction in girls can also fluctuate depending on circumstances but guys should remain confident and secure.
- Guys should be their own person and let girls chase him. And take the lead when with her.

My weakness is when I see a really attractive women with a beautiful perfect physique and a saucy/fiery personality.
What’s a girls equivalent? Is it looks as well or confidence?