She puts on makeup = Society "awwwwwwww women have it so hard" She spends a month eating right "Awwwwwwww you go girl"Men spends years building muscle = "Nobody gives a fuck" Men spend years building confidence and personality = "Nobody gives a fuck"Men have it a billion times worse when it comes to becoming attractive because it takes years of very hard work. Let's be real. NO women want the scrawny little guy. The ONLY way to become attractive as a dude is to get ripped. Women that say they don't like fit men are bullshitting you.Women... LMAO! Mah makeup! so hardz workz
Why do people have empathy for how women become attractive but not men?
At the end of the day, it's vanity. Not empathy. If a person regardless if they are male or female who doesn't love themselves will do the same thing except to another extreme and made to be a good thing than a bad thing. And buddy. Please. Insecurity is way worse than what you're talking about. If you don't overall love yourself, that's why women, in general, are not looking your way. You have to be confident in how God made you. Not every man will be 'ripped'. But most women who want ripped men are interested in sex. Not love. That is how this world works. If you seek attention that badly then maybe focus on getting mentally involved in your mental and psychological health. Overall, people like healthy people. Slim men aren't always unhealthy. But they may struggle a bit more than those who have muscle. Muscles make men look more masculine, hence a bit more attractive period. HOWEVER, that doesn't mean he's attractive just because he has muscle. But that he is about to do the provision and protection part of the job in a woman's life. It's on a biological, genetic, and cultural level besides personal choice.
For me, men in general if they were physically attractive to me, they just are. That doesn't mean I want them or care. Health is way more important to me in that aspect. If a man is naturally thin, that's that. But is he strong enough to do things? Does he want to get better and improve? But it should be because he wants to improve and not try to use that to get women. Men in general need to focus on building themselves up. The pictures that you just show is proving that people have different intent on how they carry themselves. A lustful woman is a lustful woman. A woman that is attracted to such men wants to procreate with that man. A woman that loves a man loves a man throughout all of his changes.
Look at the top example with the woman. She looks way better on the left because it's more natural, it brings out a natural beauty if she naturally loves makeup. The right one doesn't look right. It overall looks worse. Vain, self-love, selfishness. It's because she wants to be worshipped for her body. While the left can show a bit of insecurity. A woman who looks like the right is overcompensating for something she naturally doesn't have.
The 1st example of the actors doesn't really mean anything. Both are just themselves and either has it or they don't. A woman may gravitate to the right more because he has that natural sense of vulnerability and sex appeal. That's it. But if he wasn't about that, a woman will go to him because she sees something she can physically take advantage of, and it usually gets such men hurt. The one on the left may not get many women interested in him, but as long as he knows himself, he may attract a woman who wants to be with him.
The 3rd one shows nothing wrong with these men. They all look okay. But again, the left to the middle are less likely not because they're not like the right physically but because they don't seem happy. It shows insecurities, no warmness, etc. That doesn't mean they're not attractive. But that to most people, they assume they have problems, and usually, it's so. For the right, he has confidence and is happy. Most people will gravitate towards that.
Other than that, Asker, what are you complaining about? You aren't that healthy to make that assumption. I am one of those women who are not interested in 'ripped' men. If they have it, then they do. If they don't, they don't. The physical isn't so much of my concern unless it's a health reason. My main concern is the soul and mentality. Something that your mind is concerning and is better off seeing a therapist if it is greatly affecting you.
Because some in fact a lot of men that get like that become douches. Maybe it's the muscles that end up squeezing the brain, but the can become really awful. Where as for a lot of women it's not really something we can't do. How often does the nice spotty girl get rejected or not even noticed simply because Mr hot head prefers miss barbie.
We all have our issues it's best to not compare and complain.
I got it. I know how hard it is to be fit, and even more so with age. So I think guys who try are awesome. They tend to be more chill and mellow for some reason too... it's like a guy who can win a fight looks for more reasons not to fight. I've found that the case usually with the biggest and strongest guys who put a lot of work into their strength -- with a few exceptions here and there.
Well, I might still find it more impressive for a woman to perform a body transformation than a guy. It might be sexism of sorts. I don't know. All I know is that if I indulge to a point where my T levels seem low, and I'm not getting woodies left and right, it's hard to gain muscle and also hard to cut. So it seems like it's harder for women to cut and bulk as best as I can tell. So I have that bias of being more impressed when women successfully cut or bulk.
Well that's just wrong I'm afraid. Not all women want musclebound meatheads, that's a fact.
And if it were as simple as just using make-up, then there wouldn't be half as many unattractive women out there. That sounds cruel but it's true. Make-up doesn't fix everything.
Also, you act like men can't use make-up to touch up some imperfections, they totally can.
Don't know why you have this opinion. Women appreciate how hard men work to get in shape. A man doesn't have to be "buff" to be attractive, either. Just toned for his body type. We're not looking for superman, just someone who cares for themselves.
Cuz men don't give a fuck. They don't workout to impress others, they do it so they're stronger, fitter, better and worthy of completing whatever they desire in life. They workout so the competitiveness we need can be met. Its not like we can go out and fight wars in the modern age so competiting against yourself is the biggest motivation. It helps you to destroy mediocrity and puts discipline in life.
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With a friend owning a high-intensity gym I'll repeat what he says about artificially ripped steroid users like every single one you posted. Meatheads. Muscle bound baboons who grunt like a pig in heat lifting weights for a bit of attention. They come across as rather pathetic if you want the honest truth.
A guy who has natural muscular from hard work/keeping in shape is FAR more attractive than such goofballs with bulging muscles & veins.
Are you talking about beauty standards or what people are actually attracted to? Because those are different things. You can't say that no woman wants that or no man likes this because that's not how it works. Sure, there are general patterns when it comes to what people are attracted to, but you won't find a single trait that literally everybody on the planet likes.
You see this on a surface level but miss the whole point. Yes. What you said is true.
But women are weak, they need a pat on the back to get out of bed in the morning.
Where men are supposed to grow into the role of conqueror. Everyone stands against you yet you must achieve. If you got little pats on the back for doing nothing and only had to do half as much, you wouldn't be as impressive of a man, now would you?
If you wanna know about your fellow users who share the same view here, ask me alright. I have met a ton of misogynists here. Nowadays they gang up and bang girls with their questions
Men overall don't give a flying fuck. We don't need anyone's pity, we work hard to improve ourselves to reach our goals, not for attention. If you do, you're doing it wrong.
Why does it even matter? Why would you want people to feel sorry for you?
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My family member went from being thin to taking part in worlds strongest man and everyone has congratulated him for it and given him recognition for it
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I have other male family members who have gone from being thin to building muscles and everyone has given them recognition for it as well so I don't know where you’re getting that idea from
Are you ignorant to all the people that fuss over men’s abs in the media? or when celebrities bulk up for certain roles and people give them the recognition.
