Should you quit dating if you been rejected 100 times or more by various women from 16 years old to now?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

No you shouldn’t give up, just refocus your energy so that not everything you do is for getting a girl. You’re still growing and improving as a man, and that’s a lifetime journey. Are you the kind of man you want your future son to look up to? Are you the kind of man your future daughter should have as an example of what to look for in her future boyfriend? Trust me, the girls who are rejecting you now are doing you a favor. The right woman will come and she will notice the man you are becoming.

[Asker]

Just not meant to be 😔

[CriticalCatDad123]

Stop asking women out. Make them do it. If you have any female friends ask to hang out with the one you’re into when they’re available more so than the others and she should get the hint but don’t consider it a date. If you tell them it’s a date they won’t go.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Cat, man the amount of times your opening sentence - I've had women eyeball stare me to come over and flirt with them at the counter in the past - some even at different scenarios lol : each time I just was busy doing other things or made myself look completely ignorant, television, my phone, tie my shoes. Lol 😆 👟 📱 📺

[Asker]

0 because I'm average

[CriticalCatDad123]

Women don’t just come up to random guys or give them the eye expecting him to come to her unless she drunk. It’s never happened to me.

[Asker]

Guys never approached when a woman looks disinterested.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Cat, man it really has happened. They weren't staring because I had a black eye 👀 (I didn't) or because I had an ugly sweater on (I didn't). And I looked behind and around me casually each time - I was the only one around and I was minding myself... women...😈♀️♀️😋 They know when they like what they see, while multitasking even 👀👀👀👀 I'm glad each time I wasn't giving into the look of shiny distant 👄👄👀 😛

[itsclearlynicholas]

I wasn't doing the legwork for no broad lol 😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

I ain't lifting a finger 🤘🏻, ladies gotta make the move on me, I don't start flirting or be anything and now I'm 30, I'm not in that scene anyhow aka I mean I'm not one to even care for women attractively

[itsclearlynicholas]

I'm happily retired from dating and even potential Gfs or friends with benefits's lol 😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

Television time Cat man, cya and cya Asker lol south park time lol 🏞️ 📺 @criticalcatdad123 and yes, those women really have, they really happened. Neither drunks nor was I. Each time I just kept things professional and thought , I ain't flirting, she ain't flirting , even if the she's wanted me to, lol, more than once, different times, different places, different women. Each time I just ignored it or I acted oblivious and smiley as any other polite male. Cya lol 🐏🐏🐏 it's SouthPark time television 📺📺👀

[itsclearlynicholas]

I retired from dating at age 30 because I for one am finding I am happiest when I have more time for me me me. It's bliss ☺️😁

[itsclearlynicholas]

And giving back to family and friends and my time more stress free. A woman would just get in the way. You read that clearly ♀️👀🧐

[Drumlin2001]

Give up? No. But what have you learnt from it all? What are you doing to improve yourself?

[Asker]

That jocks , rich guys , junkies are preferred the most by women. That women have issue with my nose & don't like the fact that I'm skinny.

[Drumlin2001]

All I see in your responses is you balmong everyone else and taking no responsibility. Its not all about physical appearance. You need to reflect on yourself and the type of people you're chasing

[Asker]

So you're telling me to get plastic surgery and take roids then?

[Drumlin2001]

Lol. Not at all. I'm saying what you look like has nothing to do with it.
How many languages do you speak?
What hobbies do you have?
How often do you travel?
What do you do? What's your career path in the next 5 years?

[Asker]

Two languages: English, Italian.
My hobbies
Reading
Film
Tech
Tennis
F1
Football but not as often
Tai chi
Psychology
Modern languages
Animals
Travel
Tattoo art
Gaming
Only during the summer do I travel in.
Supervisor in retail until something better comes along. 🙏🏻 For a technical role to come along.

[Fireguy17]

nope it's a numbers game.
Keep asking and someday someone will say yes.

[petitedollbabee]

No, instead you should be working on yourself.

[Asker]

Don't have anything to work on apart from abs but don't see why being slim is wrong.

[petitedollbabee]

That mindset is going to carry on this cycle of rejection. Best of luck.

[Asker]

So being slim is wrong?

[petitedollbabee]

Physical appearance only gets you so far if your personality is trash. Work on yourself inwards.

[Asker]

The only reason a jock would get turned down is if he's unfunny or pursuing a lesbian or toxic but even then that type will have someone , otherwise he will always get picked because they thirsted for like Lord Jesus Christ.