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Whenever I have issues with my husband he just gets mad at me, and he doesn't want to work on it. When I retaliate and don't talk/associate with him for a few days then he gets angry at me and say I'm bad, evil... and so on and that I worry him.
But he doesn't want to talk about the issue, because it's "my" problem and in his mind he has no problems.

His sister did the same kind of treatment to her husband and now he is dead (he killed himself). He had problems with her treating him like a "slave", someone who was at her beck and call and she would complain that he wasn't doing anything special, or enough since she was the bread winner and he was the stay at home dad. She didn't validate his feelings or opinions and she treated him like an annoyance, as if work was more important than him. Eventually he stopped talking to her and slept on the couch for many years and then went to a hotel and killed himself.
Her reaction is, HOW DARE HE? He left her to "row" the boat by herself! SHOCKED and angry at him, she blames him for all her problems.
I feel my husband is doing the same to me. He puts no "importance" to me, and he just thinks about work and his video games. He barely asks me how was my day or any other questions. And every other minute he is ANGRY at me for no reason... and annoyed at me at all times. If I complain and point it out then it's "my" problem, because he is perfect.