Search Results: do people have the right not to be judged

We had a conversation about facebook yesterday and then out of nowhere he said this:
"you have a lot of friends.. i bet you $100 that at least one of them thinks im ugly" and then i was kinda shocked about that. and he saw my face and said "what? dont look surprised. people will always judge what they see on social media"
and then i replied "thats true"
and then he said "see with me, my boys tell me straight to my face and i like that about them. we joke around a lot too"
and then in my head im thinking.. does that mean his friends thinks im ugly? because he does upload pictures of us on his facebook
i think that because why would he bring that up? that he thinks my friends think he's ugly... so means his friends prob told him im ugly.. am I right?

Been talking to this guy for 6 days
He is 4 years older than me
He said he wasn't looking for a serious relationship right now
We've been talking a lot about physical stuff\kissing
He got the app because he was bored
Told me I was the only girl he was talking to and deleted his other matches because they weren't talking.
Then a couple days later I noticed our conversation on the dating app dissapeared and I asked him and he said he deleted the app and reinstalled it again when he was bored.
He wanted to meet the second day we were talking and then I explained to him I want to get to know him a bit before meeting and maybe in a couple weeks we can meet he told me with past experience that a couple weeks is too long and usually the people don't have the urge to meet them anymore. He said he understands and won't do anything I don't want to do.

He said if we don't kiss we don't kiss etc. He seems understanding and not pushy. He has asked me questions about my day and what I have planned and how my plans went etc. Then I asked if he wanted to meet this week and he said he just has to see if he can get the car (said yes) he also said he wants me to feel comfortable and be with someone that you know won't judge (something like that)

-they are argumentative
-they have to have their way
-they will put you down until you agree with them
-they think your way just sucks and will put your way down

for example this one girl thinks being the side chick is great, I don't think so and I said it's not for me... she goes on to call me names and put me down... what do you do?
ignore?
oh and in real life I have
-a mom who thinks her self worth is based on how people judge her (I'm trying to tell her it's not)
-a brother who thinks that he is the judge and must punish people by judging them and beating them up (he almost killed my mom and I don't think this is right)
-a sister who is always manipulating people including me (I'm trying to avoid her because everything she says you have to take with a grain of salt... she stole someone's husband, cheated on him with a guy and cheated on him and so on and so forth... she is just out to use people and she promises things she never brings to truth, and OH she also lies a lot and then accuses you of being the liar for not doing everything she wants...)

so how do you deal with difficult people? I've come to a point where I just want to hide in a cave and never deal with anyone... is that bad?