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we are not having sex, i dont even know if I'm ready to date anyone. i do like him but i feel like he's trying to control things. maybe he's just nervous and planning things is too stressful. I don't know i used to feel that way about plans but thats me. i dont want to assume its the same for him.

in the beginning he did ask me out but plans and the whole thing made me nervous so id avoid plans and just hag out in places wed meet in -- like school. now that I'm more comfortable around him and about hanging out in general and i want too male up for not really giving us a chance, i have asked him out but he gets weird and says he's not good with plans. but then hell ask me out. so i think his not being good with plans is just him not wanting me to know about the plan/ but i dont see why anyone would waste time trying to maintain this kind of arrangement. needless to say i dont feel comfortable accepting his plan when he ignores mine. can you think of reasons why he'd spend a lot of time with me in public and a fair amount in private but he

maybe its revenge or maybe he's become uncomfortable with plans as i was... or something else.

I don't know and i would like another chance to get to know him, but atm we are at a stand still because I'm not going to act like its ok to just try to control everything... I don't know if i should try talking to him about it or just move on. i mean if he just prefers to take charge it won't work between us bc i dont like being controlled--nor do i want to control him-- so no point ' talking;', but what if its a misunderstanding,. if i dont talk ill never know.

what do you think?