Some guys like a good pair of legs. Some guys like big boobs. Some guys like a girl with a high sex drive. Some guys also like a girl with a butt. All of those things are pleasing to the eyes I as a guy admit that. But, what is even more attractive is what is pleasing to our minds and other senses. In my world this is what makes a woman attractive to me.
1. Deep conversation
I would like to have a woman whom I can have a conversation with. Not just small talk like "how was work dear" but a conversation that goes a little something like "what do you think the purpose of life is" or "Tell me about a time that you wanted to see the world, where all did you want to go". You know conversation that can stimulate the mind and senses. Get you to reminisce on your past discover what made you the person that you are today.
2. A well read and written lady
You don't necessarily need to go to college for this. I do like a lady who can write what comes to her mind. I like it when people like to write music, poetry, in a journal, or even blogs. That shows that they are very good at using their mind. I also find reading and discussion about what people have read attractive. It gives us a good chance to recommend good books to read, discover new books, and to grow together to understand one another.
3. A good cook/baker
Not in a way that is sexist like it is assumed it is supposed to be the natural role of the woman. More in a sense where both the man and woman.can try new things and experiment with new ideas together with recipes they learned on pintrest or the food channels. Both sides take turns cooking once in a while. Maybe one time a week try a new recipe neither of us have tried before.
4. An empathetic ear
We like it when women have empathy for us. Not because we want it,but because they want to be empathetic. We love it when a woman wants to hear about our life and whats going on. Our ups amd downs. And likewise I like to hear about herself as well.
5. Independence
A woman who can show she can support herself and stand up for herself is a big winner in my book. A woman should be able to be independent if she wants to be. If she wants to take a good job instead of staying home all day with the kids Thats awesome. If she wants to run for a political office she should feel free to. If she wants to be a typical stay at home homemaker on her own free will then by all means be my guest and do so.
6. A sexual relationship where roles can be switched
I consider myself a switch. So likewise I think it would be sexy if my lady was the same. That way we could take turns giving and receiving. We could talk about and implement new ideas in the bedroom or our love life when we feel comfortable doing so. Even though physical intimacy isn't the top of the list,it is still important in a relationship.
These are just some of the things that make me take notice and attract me. Everyone has different tastes and pleasures. Thats ok, different strokes for different folks. But, intelligence and an open mind is what should be important. A woman who can spill herself and open the secrets to her heart and mind is a gift and a treasure. If you don't treat it as such then it all diminshes and will eventually vanish. So gentlemen, let's open our minds to intelligent conversation and well written and well read minds.
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