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I’m 24, ever since I moved to my own studio & driving at 23 parents have been angry that I’m an adult. They don’t treat me with respect or like adult, if I don’t do what they say , mom talks over me yells super loud to win me. she don’t listen a word at all. Mom curses at me tells me shut up, idiot, or fuck you. dad laughs in angry way as I say I’m adult rolling his eyes. they think 24 is a 5 year old. they don’t get most girls at 24 have babies. they never call or bother siblings that are married. they only talk to them 1 time a year. they want see me broke, crying for mom like baby. they don’t want see me strong healthy not sick & living alone. i don’t see 24-28 year old crying for thier mommy. parents don’t see me cuz they miss me, I saw them yesterday & all they ddI was try control me interfere in my life. get angry wen they don’t get thier way. it was 2 months I don’t see them but think now I will not see them one year or half year. each time I see them I come home crying misery depresed. They defend a toxic guy that is my ex and still talk to him daily and love him. Who defends a random bad guy and not thier daughter? they don’t respect & stop talking of that person. they love him & are brainwashed. They crossed the line, I cannot forgive parents that don’t defend their daughter. no parents do this. Mom called me demanding pick me up to go to Thanksgiving at brothers house far away with his wife, I was working & she didn’t care & just demanded pick me up like I’m a toy or baby, we fought & she cursed at me. Who gets cuz I’m working? wtf is wrong with that? im an adult I don’t need go see married bro n wife. I’m an adult women. What if I want be with my man and not bro n wife? i no longer sit in parents car while they fight. No grown adult does that either.

Let's say you go to a small gym that is a free amenity for residents of your building. There is no staff working there. It is open 8am - 10pm.

You walk in and there is one other person already there. They are working out.

The lights are on, but not all the lights. There are two light switches on the wall and there is always the option to turn on one or both switches, which is either all lights, or half the lights. In both cases, you can see the gym and equipment clearly. You can see all the numbers on the equipment. There is nothing you can't see but the light is overall a bit dimmer.

The question is: When you walk in...
Do you leave the lights as they are... ask the other person... or just turn all the lights on?

(And yep, this keeps happening that four different girls have come in and wanted all the lights on. Some ask first, some just turn them on, but none of them seem to respect the fact that we are already there, and like some people, prefer not all lights on. It feels like a hospital when they're all on. And it's not a safety issue. It's not much darker with just the one light switch on. There are mirrors on one wall and security cameras on and a F/T building staff in the lobby who keeps an eye on all camera feeds.
It doesn't happen with guys. Guys don't make any changes. They either prefer less lights on, or they adapt to the situation and whatever the other person has selected.)