Poll- should I cut out parents from my life? why they get mad I’m an adult and want treat me like baby?

[Sugar100]

I’m 24, ever since I moved to my own studio & driving at 23 parents have been angry that I’m an adult. They don’t treat me with respect or like adult, if I don’t do what they say , mom talks over me yells super loud to win me. she don’t listen a word at all. Mom curses at me tells me shut up, idiot, or fuck you. dad laughs in angry way as I say I’m adult rolling his eyes. they think 24 is a 5 year old. they don’t get most girls at 24 have babies. they never call or bother siblings that are married. they only talk to them 1 time a year. they want see me broke, crying for mom like baby. they don’t want see me strong healthy not sick & living alone. i don’t see 24-28 year old crying for thier mommy. parents don’t see me cuz they miss me, I saw them yesterday & all they ddI was try control me interfere in my life. get angry wen they don’t get thier way. it was 2 months I don’t see them but think now I will not see them one year or half year. each time I see them I come home crying misery depresed. They defend a toxic guy that is my ex and still talk to him daily and love him. Who defends a random bad guy and not thier daughter? they don’t respect & stop talking of that person. they love him & are brainwashed. They crossed the line, I cannot forgive parents that don’t defend their daughter. no parents do this. Mom called me demanding pick me up to go to Thanksgiving at brothers house far away with his wife, I was working & she didn’t care & just demanded pick me up like I’m a toy or baby, we fought & she cursed at me. Who gets cuz I’m working? wtf is wrong with that? im an adult I don’t need go see married bro n wife. I’m an adult women. What if I want be with my man and not bro n wife? i no longer sit in parents car while they fight. No grown adult does that either.

Yes

No

[RebeccaBI2000]

Just put distance between you two for a while. Show them you are an adult. You only have one mother and one father. People might fill the void, but they cannot be replaced

[Sugar100]

I will cut them out. If I see them again in one month again we will just fight and they will try control me. The only reason they want see me is to control me. I can’t see them anymore as they defend a bad guy and not their own daughter.

[Sugar100]

As they did that it’s something serious for me I cannot forgive. I want them gone from my life

[RebeccaBI2000]

My parents did not want me to move out at first, but now we have 5 hours of driving between us and I am successful. We talk all the time and see each other when we can now

[Sugar100]

I don’t think u read whole story , each time I see them it’s worse and they don’t respect me! They don’t treat me like adult just try control me and I will not see theManymore as they defend a toxci guy instead of their own daughter

[Sugar100]

This is something serious so they r cutt out from my life. I never heard of parents defending a toxic guy instead of own child. They lost me forver with this

[Cubus]

You should cut out fom sure.

[Cubus]

*for

[Sugar100]

I feel depresed 😔 I need wait half a year to not see them. If I see them again next wk or one month again we will fight and they will treat me like baby

[Sugar100]

I cannot see them as they defend a random guy and it their own daughter.

[Sugar100]

I need cut them out of my life since they defend that guy not me

[Sugar100]

I waited two months to see them and it was worse 😓 I want not see them one year

[Sugar100]

They still don’t respect me aftern2 months. They need fuck off

[BillyBalls]

Are your parents foreign?

[Sugar100]

No why

[BillyBalls]

Some ethnic parents are that way!

[Anonymous]

I wish i could date you