Depends. I've had girls throw hands to defend my honor without even saying anything, which was nice lol. But I'm pretty good at dodging hits anyway. At most I would grab her fist mid air and hold it and talk her into calming down and once she cooled off I'd let go. Or is just back off. But I'd be never hit a woman. And push? I pushed a guy off me once when I was angry. Sucker ended up across the other side of a frozen pond before falling in. That was the last time I ever pushed anyone because I recognized I'm too big for all that. So most definitely not ever pushing a woman if that happened pushing a man. Guys shouldn't be putting their hands on girls, it's just dishonorable. Cops could get called too if I can record and show evidence or if she breaks skin or something or causes damage to my belongings.
Lmao a powerful push is amazeballs haha!! And yes i love when someone defends your honor without having to ask
But a weapon is more understandable. Pop that hoe over the head with a lamp. Throw all the furniture at her 🤣
I've dealt with this before, you just block them til they run out of steam, then walk away, if she's drawn any blood photograph the injuries just in case she calls the cops and has said that you assaulted her, if you have the chance before she starts hitting or even during the attack start recording everything on your phone as sometimes this can forestall or stop the attack once they realise are going to be recorded.
Very smart man 👏
Im just glad you found a better way to stand your ground
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Lol you know I've only ever had physical altercations with guys. You hit me, and I'm hitting back. And then I'm gonna get my cousins to fuck you up too. And my cousins already know, one phone call and I'm there.
One call, thats all
Let me tell you a story about a family member I have an aunt that always said her husband would hit her so I was very critical of this Uncle whenever I was around and I would let him know I didn't like him one way or another. Fast forward 10 20 years they got divorced I was in a bad situation they asked me to come stay with them to help get me back on my feet and in reality it was cuz they wanted a different place to live in you know her and my cousins. After seeing how irrational and crazy and schizophrenic my aunt was she tried to come at me a couple times over minor arguments like she was going to assault me and it wasn't even a serious issue and believe me with great restraint I had to hold back cuz she was so irrational and made me want to beat the s*** out of her and she would have deserved it but I didn't there's even more to the story but I'm not going to get into it here some people deserve to get their ass whooped regardless of their gender I just have a moral objection to hitting women. So whether or not her ex-husband was hitting her how many times did she hit him first before one day he snapped some people use that the moral belief to their advantage thinking that since a man won't hit them that they can do whatever they want and that's just wrong
So find another female to beat her ass
Depends on the hit. If a girl is using light slaps or whatever against my chest, I restrain her wrists. If she aims for my face, I grab her hands tightly and put her in a hammerlock restraint (learned from security). If she takes a serious swing at me, that bitch is knocked the F' out cold. Man, woman, and anyone over the age of 15. I don't care.
I had an abusive mother, so I'm quite sensitive to that. I'm even the type who'll break into your bedroom in the middle of the night with a taser and stand over you while you sleep, if need be. (Yeah, I normally wouldn't say that un-anonymous, but screw it. I'm serious.)
I always say this. I even tell all my students this (and in Korea, it's more "acceptable" for girls to hit and beat boys). DON'T PUT YOUR HANDS ON ANYONE OUTSIDE A GYM OR A RING. I'm definitely, 100% not the "but she's a girl" type. You don't poke a sleeping bear with a knife and expect it not to maul you. And I'm not a happy enough person to stand there and take domestic abuse. If she wants to swing like a man, she can heal in the ICU like a man, as well. I'm even fully aware it's not the "smart" thing to dog given the biased court systems. I don't care though. Too much childhood baggage. I'll try to have someone record it beforehand, if need be, so I have evidence.
I will fully go Rayon McIntosh on a bitch. This story had a happy ending though. These two dykes got charged with felony burglary charges.
Like I said, gender is irrelevant. And anyone over 15, age is irrelevant to. But if it's a love tap or something, then I'll simply restrain her.
Hell I will die if someone beat me up lol. But I have this friend who is black belt in Taekwondo and always sticks to me almost most of the time I'm out so yeah I don't need to say anyone she will jump in the fight on her own. She is very loyal so I trust her. Though I will pity the guy who would end up groaning in floor. Trust me she is so good in these things and I have seen her knocking down a 5'10 height senior with my own eyes. If I am alone then I will defend myself and probably run away calling the cops because I can't raise my hand on anyone it's something which is not my type. I would get in a fight only if someone touches my loved ones. Other than that I don't need to enter in violence because I am so good at roasting and so savage that the person wouldn't dare to touch me cuz she/he will only get embarrassed at last.
Lmao Queen
If it’s my girl or my wife (actually has happened in the past a few times) I walk away if it’s a random chick hitting me and there’s a female around that can fight then I’ll have them get her other wise I’ll block her punches and walk away one time me and 2 homeboys got into a bar fight with the whole bar and I guess I busted a bottle over her man’s head and there was a pile of dudes and I wound up on top and was blasting dudes and all of a sudden pop pop I got hit in the mouth twice and as I was throwing a punch I realized it was a female and pulled my punch but she kept coming as I was running backwards slapping her hands away (she got in the best punches on me) and behind her a bunch of dudes were getting to come after me so I stopped and told her I was gonna knock her out just to make her stop and it worked then I continued fighting my 1 homeboy got dropped and quit and me and my other homeboy cleaned house that was my most fun fight
Lmao you beat dat bit witta bottle 🤣
The days of men not hitting women BECAUE they are women are long gone. I am a full supporter of men "returning fire" when they are physically assaulted by a woman, as I have been more than once.
Here's the problem. Men have long been taught to never hit a woman under any circumstances, and women have been taught they can get away with hitting a man for that reason. There is also a false perception that a woman cannot hurt a man. I once saw a man who was seriously injured when a woman started punching him. He just tried to fend off her blows but she landed on and he fell into a marble fountain and cracked his head and cut his forehead. He was in the hospital for days and could have been killed. Had he simply returned her assault and incapacitated her he would not have the scar he has.
We need to remove gender from this equation entirely and stop teaching boys to no defend themselves against girls. If any one assaults you, lay them out! And if you are smaller than someone, don't pick a fight with them, regardless of your gender or theirs. Women need to learn the lesson that they can no longer hide behind their gender. They need to realize that if they pick a fight with a man, they can expect to get their asses kicked. That is the only way we solve this problem.
Lmao florida, is that you
Florida? More like California.
Bingo. Obviously the no first strike rule still applies, but if a bitch starts something, thinking she somehow nothing will happen to her, she will regret it.
@Curmudgeon Yup, exactly.
I am a somewhat proficient martial artist. Once when I was 19 my mother who's a 'drama queen' Scorpio tried to slap my face in argument. She swung and I blocked her strike.
She yelped "YOU hit me!" And I countered that "NO, I stopped you from hitting ME. HAD I struck you, you'd be on the floor! " She countered "I wish I hadn't had you..." in her anger.
I replied: "I don't recall having any say in THAT matter, I DID NOT ask to BE here... may I suggest we try to make the best of the situation!" Which only infuriated her further, because I was not in fear of her~
Glad you called her out
Libras (like myself & Dad) have a special susceptibility to Scorpios. But.. my Mother can't hold intimate allure as leverage over me. She tried to re-neg on a car she'd purchased allegedly for me to chauffer her for weekly errands since she does not drive; and when she did so, I handed her back the keys! She was thunderstruck~
Oh man if my guy was physically hitting me in front of my family. Given my history, my family would take him out back and no one would ever see him again. There is lots of wide open space to bury a body or feed to the pigs.
They'd have to be pretty damn stupid to do it in front of my family. Of course the first time a guy hit me, it would be over. I would never hit anyone, no hitting back either.
Seriously though, that is something I hope would never happen. I would explain that long before we got around them. If he hit me not around them, it would still be over. Last thing I want is any family members getting in trouble with the law.
Daaaamn
Well, now by any means I would not at all condone hitting a female, but I do agree with the other responder , u allow it to happen and that will be the basis of your relationship.. you need to definitely try and restrain her just enough where she understands you won't allow that ...
Yepp
There are things you learn fast as a little brother. One of them is that if you don't hit back, you're sending the message that you're okay with being hit. Another is that violence really sucks, and is best avoided. I don't discriminate, though. If I can't get away (or the cost of it is too high), I'll put an end to it- but trading blows usually ends up maximizing pain, instead of minimizing it.
I've gotten the best results with what you might call "open restraint": pin someone's arms to their sides and they'll think they're being attacked, and struggle even harder. Grab their incoming fist and heft them off the ground by it, and they'll quickly stop. People tend to assume that being fat means you have no muscle; a demonstration that that's not the case usually gets the message across very fast.
Howndoes hitting them send the message that you're okay with being hit? If anything it sends the opposite
Spoken like someone who clearly isn't a little brother. If they try to communicate through pain, they're not likely to listen to reason. You can try, but it usually won't work; showing a willingness to hurt someone to get what you want shows an understanding of the importance of suffering. Make them hurt for every time they hurt you, and they'll stop.
I don't have any issue with hitting a woman I've done it on several occasions back when I did martial arts.
But I'm not gonna hit someone without a really good reason woman or not.
But at the same time I'm not just gonna stand there and let someone hit me repeatedly I'd give them a warning and if they didn't stop they'd be restrained and taken home where they'll stay.
If you can't act appropriately then your not gonna be there. And your certainty not going to sit there and hit me you sure as hell ain't gonna be abusive towards me nor are your going to be an embarrassment in front of my family.
Do you see what Jet Li did in the first video above
It's difficult to act in self-defense against a girl who might be abusing her rights, because you never know what kind of accusation someone would make. I suppose even shoving a female away who is continually beating a man might land a man in jail, so that's tough. So I'll try to confine them with as little physical contact as possible (maybe simply grasping their wrists). Then I can just tell them to stop because I'll be in command. If they comply, that's great, and I can walk on; if not, I'll have to call the cops.
Now, if someone I know is jokingly hitting me, I can take it, I won't mind, and I might jokingly return the favour.
I don't hang out with loud, belligerent thug trash. So the only chance I would have in being attacked by a chick would be if I didn't know her. If that was the case, I wouldn't be restrained by any notions of chivalry. She would have to be totally out of control to physically attack me in the first place, so I'd respond with minimum necessary force to neutralize the threat. A fist would be a last resort. My first thought is to block her attacks and use a take down move to make the bitch land hard on the ground with as little effort on my part as possible.
I'd watch her closely to be sure she wasn't armed. Just because she's female doesn't mean that she can't be deadly.
I'm not into fights nor violence of any type. My first reaction would be avoiding a fight at all cost, getting away and blocking hits.
If he insist on trying to hit me, I'm going to have to apply some self-defense techiniques I've learned. It's not going to look good for him.
I fully understand
I wouldn't let anyone fight for me, I'd miss out on all the fun. As a guy I'd think resisting and blocking would be more natural if being hit by a girl. Which I like to do actually. Having girls punch the heck out of you can be fun, and kinda sexy I think One of my favorite flirting tactics a girl did with me. But as a woman being hit by a man for one everyone would step in and consider castration on the guy. Now if she's like buff and butch and knows how to take men down in a few swings then it's just a fun fair fight and I'm going in throwing hands just as much. It depends on their skill and body type compared to mine.
you're a weird one. And i dont know many men who find it fun to be hit by anyone. Maybe playful punches. But not actual fighting
My dad raised us that it didn't matter. If I wanna get involved in a fight with a guy then that guy has every right to put me on my butt.
My brothers learned the same lesson, but they were taught not to be the one to instigate it or as my dad used to say "if a woman wants to act like a man, treat her like one".
Woww
m I would never hit a woman...
I almost never hit men either, I have it much easier to restrain them and I sure can
the only things that have made me fight other men is when they already hit someone I care for, or... when they get incredibly stupid so that's dangerous, and that's when their lights off is the best way to go
I would never let others fight for me either... that's even more irresponsible
Good points
You walk away from that situation. If you can't you restrain or redirect as much as possible. Though if she actually knows how to fight you defend yourself (I know women that can kick some a$$)
Haha good to know
I'm sorry- "KEEPS"?
NO.
That wouldn't happen. I would not tolerate that type of disrespect. I would be gone after the first occurrence. I would drive away and leave her there. She would have to find a ride home with someone else.
Lmao
If I am alone (not with family), and a girl is seriously at fault, and she is keen on using force; then I will let her beat me first, one time only, and then when she gets ready for second blow, I will definitely hit her under the guise of self defense.
Some people only understand the language of the punches. But I try to take on the things, verbally, 98% of the time.
If I am with a family member, my mom is enough for them.🤣😂
Get em Mom!!
Yeah!!!
different reasons gender feminism got alotta these women thinkin that they can just do anything they want just because they're feelin some type of way now my instinct is to protect women until they give me reasons to do other wise now the wise thing to do once ya realize that your not the muscle in a situation is to tailor yourself accordinly to who is now whether the woman i end up fightin is white an especially colored im never callin the cops because i dont trust em also if they're colored i can easily get them or myself killed or seriously injured at the very least
Of course I'm going to hit her. If I think she was just "playing" i will only use the same level of force she did. If I think she was serious, then I'm going to give her my 100% full strength serious reply.
Most women aren't dumb enough to go there. A man can put her in a coma with 1 punch.
Oh lord, if my partner was hitting me at a family reunion. All hell would break loose. Hed never hit me though.
If it were my family my brothers would rush him and beat him, if it were his family, I'm pretty sure his nephews would have my back.
That being said, I'd fight him too
Hahahaah
I will never hit a girl, I’m not going to get a family member of their gender to fight for me (exception my sisters), if a girl repeatedly hits me non-stop I will then have to restrain her
Hahahaa okay i like i like
I will NEVER IN MY LIFE... hit a Woman... VER.. no matter what.. I MIGHT punch a wall... if it was that bad... but NEVER touch her
Good
Plenty on GaG
Nah fck them Hoes lmao
I was taught to never hit a woman and I never will. I have had to restrain a woman before who went off on me, but never hit her. I would also not get a another female to fight for me. If it persists I would walk away from it forever. It’s not worth it at that point.
Thats good to hear
I would just try to restrain them. I would never hit a woman.
Thats good.
Plenty on GaG
Yea its a punk move
I don't believe in physical force, I rather beat the person with my words and minds. Or I would simply walk away and not have full contact with them again because I don't want to risk any criminal record being suddenly place on me.
Oooo i like
We gotta think smarter not harder
C, then A. First I try to just stop her hitting. If that doesn't work, I hit back, create some space between us, and then walk away. If she follows me and keeps on hitting, I repeat until we're finally separated... possibly by others in the group.
Damn
I think it depends on the situation: 1. In case of danger to life or serious injury the girl should find the most effective way to hurt him and run away. That it could be a kick to the balls or anything else that would allow her to run away of course if she has the option to call for help while it is better it is better. 2. In case it's a loud argument and only a weak injury such as a slap and it seems it is not going to deteriorate in my opinion should leave the place and leave the guy.
Well I definitely don't want to be hit is it takes a lot to get me pissed off but again it depends on the situation it still takes me a lot no I would block and I would leave I would leave her there
Okay good
Yeah that would be the best thing for me to do is just get away from her because I don't care how pissed off a guy gets I don't care if she hits him 100 times just need to walk away and if you know who you are then you can do that because you know all it would take is one punch and it would hurt her for a long time and that's just not worth it I can take pain I can take a punch I can take a lot of things but I couldn't take hurting somebody that I supposed to loved no matter what's going on
Not worth it, I have had a ex hit me and when I had messed my back up and couldn't go to the bathroom walking I had to crowl. I was laying on the couch and she was mad at me she started kicking my lower back as hard as she could. I was almost crying, I never touched her I called my sister to come pick me up and I never went back.
You shouldve had your sister beat that hoe’s ass. But nonetheless, im glad you’ve escaped that wacko
I don't have any ill feelings about her. She regrets it to this day
I don't involve myself romantically with men who belive it's okay to hit me. I would lay my husband out if he tried that.
Yasss 💪
Thankfully my husband is absolutely wonderful and would never behave that way against me. He also knows that I've been in and around law enforcement for the last 7 years so... our size/ gender difference isn't necessarily a deciding factor on who would win in a fight. But we don't behave violently with each other. Certainly not in public.
Anyone who hits me of either gender is getting hit.
If it's a guy they're getting a kick in the family Jewels.
Amen
@Jhonrembo lol I have two black belts
I'll hit a man before I will a girl. Before someone nags, yes I've been hit back. I dont hit someone for the fun, but I will to defend myself. Im scared to hit a girl because I've hurt men.
I would insist they stop and tell me what we can do about it. Fighting is never the solution. Worst case I call the cops.
Sounds good
I have two female coworkers that I already put on retainer in case I need a female taken care of. They are straight up hood, but sweet as pie to me.
Hahahaa
Depending on the situation i would probably just restrains them, if i had to i would hit him. Like if they had a weapon
In this case, there's no weapon
Yeah one on one just retrain them.
I would just ask her to stop as long as she isn’t causing much damage but if I feel that her hits are really taking a toll on me then I would just try to block
No lol.
You don't hit anyone, period. We are human beings, not animals. We fight with our words, not our bodies. If you throw the first punch, you're an immature child of an idiot.
Now if someone attacks me physically? I don't care if it's a man or a woman, I'm going to defend myself and probably kick some ass.
I'm not physically anywhere near as strong as my partner. But I do know I hit hard enough to question the ability to have kids in the future
Ofc I'll hit back because 1 I don't want to depend on others and 2 it's more satisfying to do it yourself
Yea it can be satisfying but if we were a guy hitting a girl, i doubt we’d say the same
I would and have fought back. I’m 5 feet tall and I don’t know how to fight, and I still stood up to my 6’4” ex. I ended up in the hospital but I still think fighting back was the right thing.
Im glad you’re still alive
Defend yourself and tell them to stop. If they won’t stop then do what you have to do to defend yourself and to stop the attack. Then call the police.
I usually date pretty muscular men, so if they actually hit and harm me, I'll hit back and cause a scene.
I wouldn't hit back. I'd just try to restrain her hands so she stops hitting me.
Thats good
I'm more than able to wash my own clothes.
If anybody, no matter the age, the gender or the delusions comes at me with something worthy a beating, they are gonna get it.
Honestly If someone is trying to hit me than I will hit them back, but depending on size will I hit them full front or not. I may try restraining them or just running away
Hmm ok
I've been pushed around, mocked, punched, kicked, beaten up, even left face first in the dirt. I've told myself that enough is enough. If you hit me, I'm gonna hit back. I don't care who you are.
Ahh, trauma
Obviously dodge them. Then restrain if it comes to that. You don’t fly off the handle immediately. That escalates things to unnecessary levels.
Right
I wouldn't hit a woman. she would have to do something very very bad for me to take violence against a woman.
Thats relieving
I'd hit back.
I don't tolerate abuse, nor do I tolerate double standards.
I wouldn't be the first to hit. But if a woman put her hands on me, I'm not just gonna sit back and let her beat me.
Equal rights. Equal fights.
You could just as equally let someone of her own gender whoop her ass on your behalf
Eh, my problems are not other people's. You invite one person in. The aggressor will invite their people in.
Im not saying to jump her. Im just saying it only takes one woman to fight another woman
@DizzyDesii yeah but if someone is up in your face smacking the shit out of you, that's no time to be all: "Hey, I'm looking for a champion to fight on my behalf. Is anyone interested?" That's great for a movie scene, but in a real fight that's not realistic.
The scenario you gave was at a family gathering, which is pretty mild. I would just move away/avoid them, and break up with them as domestic violence is BS no matter who it comes from.
But if I've got some motorcycle girl trying to shoot me with an automatic weapon and kicking me in the face, I'm not going to pull punches and/or grab a nearby female and use her body like a mannequin to throw down. Again, funny for a movie, but completely unrealistic. Try to kill me, I will kill you. Try to hurt me, I will hurt you. Gender is irrelevant.
@zeitgeist057 killing is different. But if theyre just hitting me, i’d give one hard powerful push to slide his ass across the room and i’d walk out and leave.
Yeap, I have before. I don't care what's between your legs. If I want you beaten, I'll do it myself.
A man is considered weak if he smacks a woman in a fight. My sister will kick a girl’s butt for me.
Good!!
I will protect my self but I would never ever hit a woman.
Okay good
Yes, If she is being a bad girl, then I am going to have spank her hard myself.
she's not a kid
I believe in equality, if you slap me, I will slap the shit out of you, with love always
With love 💀
I wouldn't hit a girl, if that was not a neccessity.
So what option on the poll did you choose
You punch me, you go to the hospital, man, women, whatever, you don't get to punch me. The only exception I make are <~16, I would still hit them, but with open hand.
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