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I wrote last year in fall about this guy on here, so if anyone wants to know please read. Long story. I had known him for 9 years from high-school, and ever since than he would keep harassing me and messaging me to force me to date him. I tried being friends with him but that was hard because I had hard time in life, had to deal with stuff and he's being saying how he would wait for me forever n I never even dated him. I told him to move on only liked him as a friend. Then almost every Valentine he would message me. etc. many guys like me but he was the creepiest to me. I finally blocked him in August 2014 on FB I know he wouldn't stop so it felt so good to block him. I had him on FB for 8 years and I was just being nice, should have done it long time ago. I thought he'd finally move on but he still kept persisting. He'd be very jealous of guys I'd date n sometimes put me down saying how those guys don't like me. I'm so happy I don't need to keep looking over my shoulder. For last vday I said hi back then he's like happy Valentine's day what your bf doing so special? He knew I don't have one so I ignored him. Plus he knew I don't feel same way. I decided to go no contact because this is too much. He sees I don't talk, ask him out, was still forceful. Move on. I'm going through same thing. Liking a guy who don't like me back. It's very hard but that's life. So he tried in August to talk to me again n I ignored him so he can get the message. Few days was his bday n I never wished him I guess he got mad n said hey your trying to be stuck up n ignore people now. Well yea Cuz you can't stop this obsesion it's creepy, if he was normal he wouldn't complain n move on. I blocked, him. 5 months, later he finds me, on instagram, follows me, never followed back. Ithink he opened it, to, find me. He never had it before he has no pics, at, all. I will block him again. That's creepy dude I blocked u on FB, why following me again. I wouldn't do that to others if they block me.

I am 26 and my boyfriend is 22. Coming this March, we have been together for 3 years. During our 3 years, it has been very rough. In the beginning, I've dealt with him calling me names, screaming at the top of his lungs/ in my face/ punching walls/ throwing things/, cheating on me, creating secret accounts by asking other women for sex, forming relationships online with other girls (where he'd stay up from the day until 6am with them & ignore me), calling other girls and prostitutes to meet with them (but would never follow through with it), and lying. Now, I would have left, but I stayed because I understood he was insecure about himself since he told me he was, and I gave him another chance when he said he snapped out of it and realized how much he was hurting me. He promised all this would change and it'd be in the past. We were working on trust again. I have not cheated, not lied, not deceived, and not have been unfaithful.

One of our reoccurring problems, is that he hides stuff from me and it always has to do with other women. Whether it be flirting or visiting sites. For a long time, HE STOPPED doing these things and our trust was almost restored UNTIL yesterday. We share a phone. I opened it and all these nude pictures of women popped up in the private browser. He forgot to close it. I was upset he felt the need to hide it and what else could he be hiding? He's always "tired" and we hardly have sex or he says I am too loud and he doesn't want to wake his parents. I don't send him sexy pictures anymore; he tells me not to because he doesn't want to get his icloud hacked like other people. It's confusing. He tells me he doesn't have sexy pictures of me so he needs to look at other nude women to get off. It hurts since he always says I am the only person he jerks off to when I have proof that is a lie. The only pictures he has of me are normal smiling pictures and he told me he's a visual person. I feel like I can't trust him anymore. It's old. Help?