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They've known each other for around 10 years. When they first met, they had sex but it didn't work out so they decided to remain friends. He was really young back then. I trust my boyfriend fully and I know he is not attracted to her since long ago. He had couple serious relationships before me. My boyfriend loves me a lot, no doubt. The issue is, his best friend is very FISHY! Even he told me himself that all his exes was never a fan of her.

When we first moved in, she would text my boyfriend to go out on weekends at night. He tells her I'm coming, she would disappear, and cancel the plan. She did that for 2 months almost every weekend. It took me awhile to meet her. My boyfriend was being oblivious and saying maybe she's busy got other plans. She has never once been warm to me for 2 years and clearly she does not want. She even refuse to add me on Facebook until my boyfriend told her to. I was furious and told my boyfriend that she's not liking us together. He told me that if I trust him, what's the problem. He DOESN'T CARE if she likes him or not. If she does, too bad for her. If she doesn't, great. But I am agitated and angry inside when he tells me that he's going to hang out with the best friend. She is always the one that asks him out first. She would take my boyfriend out to meet with her friends that he doesn't even know. Recently, she only asks him out when I'm at work during the day. It's obvious to me she's making sure that I'm not with him.

I tried over the years making initiative to break the walls with her. Pretty clear she doesn't want the 3 of us to be like family. I'm getting agitated also because my boyfriend is being totally oblivious and doesn't believe me. She on the other hand, keep on asking him out without me. He thinks that maybe because we are two completely different people so she doesn't think we would get along. I think she's pissed that he doesn't look at her that way and very jealous of how much he loves me. What should I do?

My boyfriend and I have been together for couple years. We lived together for 2 years. I trust my boyfriend 100%. My boyfriend loves me a lot and I am very confident. They did started off as fooling around with each other but after they had sex, they decided they will be better off as friends. I have no doubt that he is not attracted to her anymore.
My boyfriend has couple serious relationships before me. Seems like it's common that she makes his girlfriends feel dislike/disrespected. They've been best friends for at least 7 years. I have no problem at all with them being best friends if she did not make those immature move of hers. When we were first dating, my boyfriend was excited for us to meet. However, she obviously was not. Probably around 3-4 times, she last minute cancel plans or simply, not show up. She didn't even show up for my boyfriend's birthday party (also last minute). When we moved in, every week she asks my boyfriend out on weekends. My boyfriend won't leave me home alone, so he lets her know that he's bringing me. She then disappears or cancel the plans. It's pretty obvious to me that she not liking my existent. When we finally met, I was being very kind and nice hoping that she would accept me. However, she seemed okay but later on, I found out she wasn't. She won't accept me as a friend on Facebook or follow me back on twitter. Fast forward today, she don't really ask my boyfriend out anymore because he would bring me along. She only comes out if I am not there. I talked to my boyfriend about it however, he doesn't find anything wrong or he feels something is that off. He said she might just not like hanging out with me because we are completely different. I told him that her behavior is making me question of her intentions. My boyfriend said he would too if he was me. But he said really nothing to worry about because he doesn't like her and she's like a sister to him. If she does try something then he would tell her off.