Search Results: after the girl has cheated

In my relationship I feel like I am always trying to please him, and he is always just "annoyed" by everything in life...

Is this how most relationships are like?
the girl asking the guy every night "what do YOU want to do" and "what do YOU want to eat" etc
and the guy just says whatever you want
but when the girl says "this thing and this food" he says no, and after 10 nos... it is like she has to play around to try to please him!!

how can this be stopped!!

Why can't the girl just say "I want things to do tonight, want to join me? NO... ok I will go find other friends to do it with" or "I want this to eat tonight, want to eat it with me? OR else go find your own thing"... why is it the girl is always trying to please the guy , and the guy is always annoyed at the girl to the point that he ignores everything she does for him and complains that she does nothing and then CHEATS ON HER!!!

Women are too much of people pleasers that's why they get cheated on so much...

My boyfriend's in special ops and always goes on these missions. This one has been the longest since we started dating - 4 months. I know that all these thoughts and doubts filling my head might all go away when he comes home in April. But these past few weeks I've just felt so disconnected. It's not the first mission since we started dating, so I don't know why I'm feeling like this all of a sudden. I mean, sure, I always miss him, but I've never had these negative thoughts all those other times he was gone. It could be because he apparently told my dad about going to business school at oxford or stanford or one of those other rich people schools in a year or so, but he hasn't talked to me about it yet. All he talks about with me is getting married after I graduate college. But I know that's not the only thing bothering me. It's also him going away all the time and always having to pick up where we leave off instead of just continuously going out - in person. On top of all that, I've become infatuated with someone I see every week, ever since I had this bicycle accident last week and he was really caring and protective. I can't stop thinking about this guy... My best friend says if I'm going to break up with my boyfriend it's better to do it over email if I have to, rather than wait till he comes back in April. But he just sent me a valentines gift, and then emailed me these sweet words, and... it just feels like bad timing. But if I don't break it off I feel like I'm going to cheat on him with this other guy. I already can't stop thinking about kissing him the next time we're alone... My boyfriend is a good guy. I know that all girls are going to say is that I'm a slut and should break up with him now, so I'm not even going to bother asking them. I need guys' opinions on this. My best friend (guy) says I should break up with my boyfriend now through email. What do you think I should do? Here are the options I could think of, whether moral or immoral:

My boyfriend is filming a vedio shoot, he does music vedios bit the problem is he is doing an all girls in lingerie and I don't trust him they are also gunna have a party after the shoot and apperntly he has to stay for that. I dont trust him because he tells me everyday how he wants other girls and wants me to lose weight so he doesn't have to want other girls. And how I need to make all his friends jealous of him, and so many more stuff. He's stepped out on the realtionship before never took it sex level but when all girls gunna be naked he's gunna get hard and then he's gunna get drunk too.. what should I do? He didn't ask me how I felt about it either. I really feel he's going to cheat.