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I came across this movie in which the description was that the main characters were learning to survive in a “post relationship” world. So I looked up what does post relationship mean and after diving deeper into that, I started looking at the topic of “relationship PTSD” I eventually landed on this article letting you know if you have relationship PTSD. There were a list of all the side effects one might expect from being hurt. I guess the key difference between regular sadness that your relationship ended and relationship PTSD is that the relationship in ITSELF brings the “victim” a great sense of paranoia. It all sounded so familiar. But the thing that stuck out to me the most in his article was that apparently, if you have relationship PTSD you can hardly remember being happy in your relationship. I can relate to that very much. When I look at other people being happy in there relationship I feel one of two things. Either I have this daunting concern that I am somehow different from women who are clearly more able to exist in a relationship-or I suspect that the love I witness isn’t real. I mostly see my last relationship as just one big painful memory held together by a few happy memories or moments. But when I actually stop to recall the times where I felt happy in my last relationship, I realize I wouldn’t have been happy AT ALL during the entire length of the relationship IF I knew the things that my ex boyfriend was concealing from me or even IF I knew the outcome that would come out of being in love with a man who cared so little about me as to ghost me after an entire year just to be with someone else. So in its entirety, the relationship seems like a fake to me. And it causes me to have a continued sense of paranoia even years later. And while I refuse to let my ex win any more and I think that I have recovered a lot of myself, I haven’t yet recovered the sense that when I meet a new guy I can accept that “this is reality” or “this is genuine.”

So I've met this guy 4-5 months ago and since begining acts different than other guys in our group of friends. He had problem talking to me, he was staring at me a lot and smiling, when I would ignore him standing next to me he would become mean and stuff.. and always was near me wherever i stand. Last 3-4 weeks he's been really distant in person.. he would smile anymore, won't stand near me and other stuff he did, but he always wants to help me. We have group chat with two more guys, and my guy friend said that him and I text almost always in there. We tease eah other, he compliments me and we sand each other hearts sometimes (most are between us).

So few days ago he called me on app and me and my friend didn't answer and he said that we should give him our numbers and i sand it to him in private box. After two hours he texted me and I tried to continue conversation but it died quickly (I have his number for month and he has mine but he acted like he forgot about it and he sent me text). He stopped to talked on wapp and answer to my text on group chat from few hours ago and i ignored it. I ignored him for 3 days and today I tagged his friend and asked him something and this guy answered in second for friend, and he did it twice.. and he wasn't even online when i sent message in group chat.

I don't know what's whit this guy. I think he might be like me but im not sure. Two weeks ago we were for 5 minutes alone first time and he was so quiet until his friend came and i don't know why.
He's nice guy, but I don't know why he won't talk to me in private box or when we are alone. He's really sometimes weird. What should I do?