Search Results: heart hurts

Do guys need extra time to process criticism/the fact that a girl is emotionally hurt by them?

(We are not in a real relationship yet) When I get hurt by something that he is involved with, I tend to hold it in for a while and then when it gets to a point where I just have to tell him. As we both work late and...

Yaaaay

Xper 5 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Do girls have hollow, empty hearts? As in, do they ever realize how much they've hurt a man when they lead them on?

Anonymous

(25-29)

I was ghosted but I can't get over how much I miss him, I keep thinking he'll come back. Help?

I met this guy on tinder. We dated from early November until last Monday. He ghosted me. I feel horrible. I blame myself. I'm trying to occupy myself with work and trying to go back to school. Everything reminds me of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I forgive him for ghosting me if opportunity presents itself? Is this all my fault?

Hi everyone. I met a guy on a dating app. He was very sweet. We talked online for 2 months. Talked on the phone during my breaks and face timed. I told my mom and friends about him. I have severe trust issues but I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

HELP. HE GHOSTED ME, AM I TO BLAME? CAN I HAVE A GUYS PERSPECTIVE?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do you think my ex keeps giving mixed signals?

My ex & I were together for about a year and a half. He broke up with me about 6 months ago. It wasn’t because of anything either of us had done wrong. We were both going through some stuff with family illness and death,...

Hermitess

Xper 5 Age: 40

Can a guy and girl be just friends even if they have feelings for each other but cannot be together?

Years ago i probably would have said unequivocally No to even befriending a guy. Then I had to come in contact closely with guys on a daily basis at my (then) new job. And so over a long time I realized that I had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

Will I ever stop crying because I randomly remember how I lost my virginity to rape?

Since I'm a transgender girl people were always so mean to me in school! Guys always made fun of me and said super mean stuff to hurt me! My friends were always so happy with their boyfriends and I thought that I would...

ElizaPam

Yoda Age: 31

Family & Friends

How to not take toxic criticism by controlling parents to my heart?

I battled with depression alone and was sick. If I share with my family, they always shamed me or called me weak. Now I'm okay and I started being productive. I worked out, read 11 pages of a book despite having...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A different perspective on dating women from what's being pushed today, man to man.

There are many guides on how to get a girl, so many dudes get wrapped up into it all and wind up hurt because they couldn't get her, but let me explain a few things. *Also if you're looking for a guide on how to just pick...

BlackUrsidae

Xper 4 Age: 27

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I matched with this guy on FB dating earlier this month should I continue talking to him?

Earlier this month I matched with this guy on FB dating we hit it off really well. We really opened up to each other quickly (sometimes I think it was too fast). We both talked about how we've been hurt in relationships...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Meeting an ex with mixed signals?

Hi so I’m meeting my ex and tbh idm him I’m over him it’s alright took me ages to agree to the meeting. But we talked today just to confirm our meeting for tomorrow the place and time and he asks what am I wearing I just...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Should I just turn into the monster I can be?

I’ve always been the type of boy that was always soft, I don’t know why I care for the world so much and it hurts l, it has led me to grow up too quickly, I wrote my first quote when I was 13 years old about existence and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do you believe that female partners want open relationships with other people more than their male partners?

I fell like woman often come to their male partners asking if he would be alright with an open relationship far more than the men asking their female partners if they would be alright with an open relationship. Why do you...

Heartache0405

Xper 7 Age: 29

How do you move on from a toxic ex?

So I was with my ex for 7 years and he cheated and said he wanted to leave several times, he just didn’t want to break my heart. He tried manipulating me into staying as a “friend”. Part of me is sad bc I didn’t think...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why don't women women realize that they're the ones that create f*ckboys?

Once that less desirable dude that would give his whole heart that y'all took advantage of becomes good looking, he doesn't want to treat you right. He just wants to hurt you as pay back

BlackUrsidae

Xper 4 Age: 27

How can he turn around and say I’m not his type after two years. Could he have said it in anger?

my heart hurts so so much I quite literally can’t stop crying

Bekaaaaaaaahhhh

Xper 6 Age: 25

How to heal a broken heart when the person stooped very low?

everybody deserves to have true love. I understood that. A long time ago, I tried to accept that my first love just didn’t love me back... and that was okay. I dreamt of a future where we were happy, had kids, a big...

Anonymous

(25-29)