It broke my heart as I had made him promise me not to hurt me because of this ex in the future and he still did. We kept fighting and he never proved to me that he has cut her off or even told her about me, he broke up with me again because I can't trust him, this time I also begged him not to leave me but he did anyway...
Two and half years later he came back and sent me a message but I never replied as i had met someone in those 2.5 years. 2 more years he texted me and I replied and he told me that he misses me and my eyes and that he can't believe we will never see each other again as I had gotten married. He seemed very touched and sad that I got married and won't be able to talk to him anymore.
Why do I feel bad for him? He screwed himself and i feel bad about it?
Does he even love me or for real regret losing me?
Is he worth me thinking about him all the time now even after i got married? was there anything else I could do?
Please let me know
Life goes on. I was getting to know a guy at 17 and he tried to play me for a fool then I cut him off. He tries to come back numerous times but I know the fool I wasn’t back then cannot compare to the woman I am right now. I loss taste for the males I was interested years ago and that alone would push me for away from taking them back.
When a woman realizes her worth her standards are raised higher which introduces her to real men. He regrets it because reality hits and who’s business is that? If I sobbed for every guy that came back and who regretted their behavior towards me in the past I would be sobbing and seeking closure from each one.
Receiving a text from a guy from the past strokes my ego. I know they’re only around to see if I’m foolish enough to accept them back. I read the message, read the time stamp, swipe and delete the text thread. If any guy from the past is wondering how I’m doing I’m sure they know all is well after I walked away from them. Curiosity kills the cat they say.