I've been seeing this guy for a year now and he's been getting pretty close to this girl which makes me feel super insecure and I know he has cheated on me with her. They are constantly talking to each other and he has been very secretive and it makes me feel upset.
For the past couple of days, he has been super attentive towards me and all caring which is confusing me. It makes me feel good that he is showing me attention but I also have an uneasy feeling.
Mentally I made the decision that I am single now I have not talked to him about how I felt and that I know that he is cheating on me. I am not trying to toot my own horn but this week alone I have had a few guys ask me out on a date but i am not feeling it with those guys don't get me wrong they are decent guys that are super respectful of women but why am I soo hung up on him.
For the past couple of days, he has been super attentive towards me and all caring which is confusing me. It makes me feel good that he is showing me attention but I also have an uneasy feeling.
Mentally I made the decision that I am single now I have not talked to him about how I felt and that I know that he is cheating on me. I am not trying to toot my own horn but this week alone I have had a few guys ask me out on a date but i am not feeling it with those guys don't get me wrong they are decent guys that are super respectful of women but why am I soo hung up on him.
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It sounds like you really cared about this guy, so it's normal to feel hung up even after he messed up. Ending a relationship is tough, especially when there's still feelings there.
But you gotta trust your gut - if he's being sketchy and you know he cheated, taking him back probably ain't the play. Dudes who do that usually don't change their ways.
As for him actin' all sweet now, I'd be wary of that. Could be just tryna string you along 'til he finds something "better." Or maybe he realized what he lost, but is it too little too late? Hard to say for sure.
My advice would be don't shut the door completely yet, but keep your guard up 100%. You deserve way better treatment, feel me? Give those other guys a real chance too - might find someone who respects you the right way and doesn't play games.
Easiest thing is time, sista. Heal from this how you need to. Do you and stay busy with the girls. Before you know it you won't feel so caught up on him no more. Keep your head up!
Perhaps because the only reason you're not with him is because he cheated. So there's still feelings there but you know you didn't have them because of what you did
Your best bet is just to leave him officially and never look back. That way you can start the, "getting over him" stage
Because you're stupid.