Why do I feel guilty/bad talking to other girls, when I have no reason too?

[childplease]

There is a girl I really like.. she has been seeing the same guy for almost two years. They hvant really been getting along lately and have kind of been hoping I could have a chance but they're still together. This girl is perfect for me and I really want her to be mine. But I know its just not going to happen right now. sometimes I even feel worthless when I see my friends trying to flirt with her. but the weird thing is since I know I don't have a chance right now, I have turned to flirting with other girls. every time I do though I feel sad. or even talk to them sometimes, I will feel sad and pissed off at myself as if I feel I have gone wrong. Why do I feel this way ?

[Greeneyes4242]

You feel this way because you want those girls to be her, and yet they aren't. You really, really like her and it doesn't seem like you're going to be getting over her anytime soon. If/once they break up, tell her your feelings: it gets rid of the awful mixed signals. In the mean time, all you can do is show her what a wonderful guy you are so she could see what a relationship with you would be like. Lots of luck :) hope things get better soon.

[kiulani]

it means you really like her, maybe even love. I wish she knew how you felt, it's really sweet, I say just pray they break up, the guy is not as good as you and you deserve her. when your in an intimate setting with her, just tell her. girls love a guy that's forward. let me know how it works out, good luck :)

[childplease]

when you say girls love a guy that is forward and I should tell her, do you tihnk I should consider her boyfriend ? or the possibiility she thinks less of me because I approached her even though I clearly knew she has a boyfriend. another thing I would like to add is sometimes I feel seh wants me to say something but I don't know if its just me.

[Anonymous]

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