I was ghosted but I can't get over how much I miss him, I keep thinking he'll come back. Help?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy on tinder. We dated from early November until last Monday. He ghosted me. I feel horrible. I blame myself. I'm trying to occupy myself with work and trying to go back to school. Everything reminds me of him. It was a short relationship but for some reason it really is leaving a mark. I genuinely fell for him and we talked about a future. I'm not sure if there was a miscommunication but he hasn't returned a single text message or snap. I don't have the heart to call him. I feel hurt.
Like all of that time and I don't even deserve an explanation. It's only been a week but it's been a long week. I'm becoming so depressed. I just wanna know what happened. I thought him and I were fine. We literally made plans to see each other the next day. He asked me to be his girlfriend. I'm so sad. I wanna reach out again so badly. We really had a connection. I don't understand why he's being like this.

If I send another message what should I say? He's done this before and came crawling back. But this is just wrong. It's eating me up inside. I need an explanation.

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I messaged him and we'll see if he answers

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If not I'm so effing done

[Daniela1982]

Call him then. Don't expect him to call you with an explanation. There are many reasons such he was not ready to settle down or he found another girl that he jived with better. Who knows? You will have to ask to find out for sure.

[Asker]

He left my snapchats on read. I'm just going to cry it out and block him on everything

[Daniela1982]

Come on, that's being immature. If it bothers you ask for an explanation. It might have nothing to do with you at all. No use feeling bad if you didn't do anything wrong, right?

[Asker]

You're right. Thank you for your perspective. I took a step back, and I'm going to let it go. If it is meant to be, it'll be. I'm sad because I trusted him and I feel blind sided and confused. I can't drive myself crazy anymore.

[Dojaphat456]

Look up on youtube about ghosting.
It's usually because the ghoster in this case found someone else or going through things. Dont beat yourself up for it. Just move on to someone who deserves you!

[Asker]

Well I can't trust anyone obviously

[Dojaphat456]

Good luck with that

[Noor27]

Same happened to me , most of them are liars , stop thinking that you did something wrong , move on and find someone else who deserve you

[Asker]

Yeah. I'm moving on now. I let it hurt me. Now I'm just going to have to build myself up again. I have severe trust issues, now they're more severe. I finally trust a man, date him, and this happens.