About 3 months ago this guy started talking to me. Soon we were texting eachother and he then asked me out on date. The day of our date I felt like I had fallen for him. He was really sweet to me. I felt like I had a connection with him even though it was our first time meeting eachother.. we then came back to my place and we spent some time talking, and then he kissed me. The kiss led to something else. He stayed with me until 2 am, when he left he told me he would text me when he got home. He did but I had fallen asleep. We would text eachother everyday. We saw eachother every two weeks because he lives an hour away and works 6 days a week full time. He acted the same way though, I didn't sense anything wrong. It was only when we weren't together that I noticed that he acted differently. He would take a while to text back but I thought it was probably due to work, church, gym etc. After our third date, he told me he would text me as soon as he got home. But just like the second date he didn't. I didn't say anything about it because I didn't want to seem needy. Well after the third date I texted him the next morning and he seemed distant, this time I wanted to ask him to go out to this show with me. He never answered. Didn't answer the next day or the next. So I sent him another text asking is everything okay? Nothing. Then the next day he posted on fb and it made mad because he still hadn't answered. I didn't confront him or anything. I deleted him from fb and never messaged him again. It's been almost 30 days since we've talked to eachother. We only dated for 2 months, I know that's not a lot but I liked him very much. I don't know why he disappeared. I don't know if he just never tried contacting me again cause he saw that I deleted him? I feel like I deserve some closure being that we slept together. But I don't know if i should ask him? I keep trying to remind myself that if he really cared and wanted to talk to me he would.. But it's hard:/
Missing the guy who ghosted me?
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