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Like if you're going to attract guys you are interested in, you're also going to attract guys you aren't interested in. You dont get to cherry pick who checks you out and who doesn't. If you want no one to check you out, it really isn't difficult to make yourself unattractive. If you are trying to be as attractive as possible to get hot guys your age to fawn over you, you're also going to get ugly guys and older guys to leer at you. That's how it works. Deal with it.

As long as all they're doing is looking there's nothing wrong with it.

If anyone checks me out even leers at me, I feel flattered. They can be ugly, a whole lot older, a whole lot younger, or a guy, I feel flattered when they check me out. If it's a girl I also find attractive, thats just a bonus.

So I've notice once a woman is financially secure in herself in life, to the point that money no longer is a factor and she can live comfortably she tends to go and pick hot guys like this for her boyfriend. I see this often with doctors, lawyers, and basically women who have good jobs that they are capable of supporting themselves without the need of another person.
There was even question a few months back where the question was asked "Should women start dating down?", a couple of guys brought up example in their life where an older woman who was financially secured opted to get a hot, young stud to be her man.

I often wonder whether women picking men who aren't 8/10+ in looks came from a survival basis based on this. What i'm getting at is if a woman is in a position where money is no longer a problem she goes for goes with good genetics. While if a woman is in a position where money is still a factor and is needed to help make a stable life for herself she will dip lower in the type of guy she actual wants and go for men sometime less attractive that her.

She may not only go for less attractive men for money but for security of knowing he won't leave her if she is more attractive than him or the best he can do.


However, hypergamy dictates women more often will always want a male who makes a higher salary than her and has a higher social status.

E. g. Nurse wants to date the doctor.