Search Results: relationship red flags

I asked him if he’s serious about me and he said this. Is it a red flag?

serious about you? you have enough qualities and more that lets me know you are someone I'd have no problem being friends with, in a relationship or whatever for a long period of time. I'm here to give my best to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it a red flag if a girl starts crying when talking about the relationship/kids subject?

She said it makes her emotional because everyone she knows talks about their partners or having kids or weddings, etc.

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend texted his ex saying “I wish the best for you always have.” Am I wrong for being mad?

Why would he wish the best for someone that left his life in 2016? Especially someone that left him for his best friend! he was with her from age 13-18 but surely that’s just puppy love? he's 25 now! just feel sad and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I avoid toxic relationships?

Sure this is centred around romantic relationships but it also extends to friendships, I just keep finding myself in toxic relationships. After years I've learned how to identify red flags better and how to let go of...

not_a_twinkie

Xper 5 Age: 24

Boyfriend liking a lot of posts of other girls, red flag?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for four months now. We go to the same school so people know about our relationship. My boyfriend is not the flirty type, yet I started feeling insecure lately when I found out he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why can't I never seen any clear red flag in previous relationship or just seem very confuse?

The relationship that I did were serious relationship and some guys just make excuses about what one guy didn't even know what he was doing wrong. Another guy has mental health issues and took me years to found he was a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it a red flag when a guy says that he’ll text you after a date but doesn’t?

Long story short, I met this guy on a dating app in November, and we were going to meet up, but he went out of town. So we texted almost everyday and had our first date via FaceTime. Fast forward to now, we had our...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Has anyone else ever encountered something like this?

There's this man that I've known for a very long time. We were on and off for a decent amount of time that we were both in college. By on and off I really mean friends with benefits that occasionally talk about real life....

Anonymous

(30-35)

I stopped talking to this guy who I've been friends with for almost 9 months and I miss our friendship should I text him?

we had a lot of fights during our so called friendship i liked him in the beginning but i stopped because he had a girlfriend but he was giving out a lot of red flags he was flirting with him. he did break up with her...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What Are The Relationship Red Flags That Would Indicate To You Your Partner Isn't Fully Invested In You Or Your Relationship?

Brainsbeforebeauty

Influencer Age: 53

What are red flags in the beginning of a relationship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is a guy with a long chain of exes, a red flag?

Lets say that you went on a date with a guy, you realize that he makes reference to a lot of exes. He is in his mid 30s, and sounds like he probably had as much as 8-10 girlfriends. Rather intense relationships but never...

Arabella_Rose

Xper 5 Age: 29

Why is being socially awkward is seen like it’s some plague?

Why are girls so put off by awkward guys like we are some plague? I’ve ruined my chance of getting my first potential girlfriend last month all because I hardly said a word to in the 2 hour car journey back to my house. I...

JamieRobinson1994

Xper 6 Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

Do you think it’s time for me to break up with him?

Ok so I think I want to leave my boyfriend of 2 years. He’s 30, smokes weed all day every day and plays video games 16 hours a day. Calls into work 2-3 days a week. I’m constantly making us dinner and I come home from...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Do I need therapy?

Let's be real. This is something I might laugh at myself over. Due to the fact that I tried to date a narcissist. Just for 2 months... and I sit back sometimes, asking if I need therapy. People tend to throw narcissist...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have You Ever Ignored Red Flags When Pursuing a Friendship/Romantic Relationship or while in a Friendship/Romantic Relationship?

I certainly have, and it ended up with me almost losing my job. What happened is I was pursuing a friendship with this girl at work I had no business pursuing a friendship with, and in the end I gave her a hug she didn't...

etexbearkat

Xper 5 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

'Dumped' by dismissive-avoidant affair partner (AP) after 1.5 months. How do I heal and move on?

Long time lurker, but first time poster. 37M married for 7 years - no kids. Met the AP (35F) on OkC 2 months ago. We hit it off & things moved fast - we were meeting 1-3 times/week. My wife didn't suspect anything...

virusbkk

Xper 3 Age: 42

Asking for a friend, a guy was behavior really means?

If they’re having a hard time in relationship and Guy promises that he’ll do whatever it takes the steps it up whether it be listening better, doing chores, and following through, anything not to lose relationship what do...

Anonymous

(36-45)