So not wanting to kill babies is supposed to be a red flag? Lmao
Oh look a conservative who gets upset not everyone like's conservatives or wants to be with them. pathetic.
Oh look, a baby killer
@warrenstone A fetus is not a baby. Anyway I haven’t heard any conservatives advocating for free medical care for children.
@slatyb - A fetus is a stage, just like a baby is a stage. Specific traits like hair color, eyes, height as an adult; they NEVER change.@Kaneki05 - You are missing out on people who can actually make you a better person. If it wasn't so ironic it wouldn't be sad.
@KneeDragger oh yes make me a better person, like i asked for that or asked to be what you personally think is one. Tbh if you people were any good, you would just let someone not like you rather than get into a hissy fit. Isn't it Jesus who literally didn't fight back against people who disliked him enough to even death did you somehow miss a lesson there? Or when slapped, turn the other cheek? Hypocritical messes you people are. Good day.
@KneeDragger A stage? So what. Before 24 weeks there's no question that a fetus is not conscious. We protect conscious beings.
Wow. Thanks for the most helpful opinion
A gold digger thumbed you down
@Grubhub Yes. More women aren't gold diggers anyway, so it's all good.
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Going back to number 10, while I love my friend Elizabeth, I could not date someone who has mental health issues and is not actively seeking out treatment if the issues are not under control (her mental health issues are not under control, but she's actively seeking treatment). If she has issues such as depression, an anxiety disorder, or bipolar disorder, and they are under control with medication, I would be fine with that, or if she's seeking treatment, I would be supportive. I have ADHD, and would not want a wife who has the condition who does not have it under control. Having the condition myself, I know how debilitating it can be.
I agree with most of these.
Ever consider becoming a monk/hermit?You ain't never gonna get laid!!!
Hahahaha! You have an anime body pillow, don't you? Say yes, nerd, because I know you do.
I feel like you need to lower your standards a bit you’re 34😂
@GnatSocks Nope, no body pillow, but with how much of a retard you are I'm guessing you have one.
@NoManTwo Actually I don't have a difficult time getting female attention, most women I find atttractive think I'm cute af, so much so that I've never had to hit on anyone, they do it for me, so I can afford to be picky.
@Birdlegs No logical reason to do that.
I agree with most of these except for 1, 3, 12. The guys that are talking crap to you have no standards so don't worry about them.
@HawkPerception 12 is honestly the most important one to me. And I'm not worried about them, but I did block them either way, they don't deserve to reply to my responses.
@TheSpaceGnome Good man!
If you want a low body count you’d have to go after a female who’s considered unattractive. It’s ironic because I’ve loved someone with so many red flags. Was a smoker, partied too much, womanizer, too big of an ego, insecure, disgusting attitude when angry, verbally and physically abusive, talked down on females, red pilled, picky, and he had soooo much high standards for someone who is flawed himself. But my feelings for him were genuine so I looked past his “red flags”. I see how men and women differ with each other. I also see that these lists varies depending on the man and his age. These traits that most of you have chosen are factors of a religious woman. Men have chosen the bad girls all throughout high school, all of a sudden saying they honor a woman of virtue.. and woman see what other men like. And have tried to live up to these standards only for them to find out they changed their mind. It’s so sad to see how much woman try to live up to these expectations that change over time when a man can give up on a woman over these red flags.. a woman can be brought up well by her parents but get influenced by society and surroundings.Don’t be fooled when you see a woman with tattoos and piercings. It doesn’t always signal red. And what if she doesn’t have a father figure due to uncontrolled life circumstances like death? Drop these standards, I’m not saying to have your preferences but your chances of finding a woman who matches your 100+ list of standards will slim down your options. The perfect woman does not exist.
The list doesn't consist of no-gos, just red flags. Although most of them are essential. I don't think only unattractive wome have low body count at least here in germany. Men love to have sex with bad girls relationships are a different story. Your reply feels like you have written it with anger. Most men here want the same as far as I can tell and women usually have higher standards than men.I will date a women who has lost her father but don't judge for being more careful around them I don't want to put my mental health in danger.
Attractive woman often deal with the worst type of men leading them to make bad decisions. A lot of woman lie about their body count, and men who use woman for their body shouldn’t put a virtuous woman in their list of preferences, these type of men don’t even have respect for their own bodies or other women. Just cause a man sees a bad woman doesn’t mean to go and use her when there’s no intention of being with her.
A women is responsible for her own actions. Most of the problems could be avoided by either having higher standards or just sleeping with guys for the first dates. If I lower my standards that would put me at risk.
There’s nothing wrong with having preferences, I have my preferences too. Then again, it all depends on my level of interest. If red flags interfere it just means I’m not that interested. thanks for your intake, anyway! :)
What a sad day and age we're in that you even have to mention 4 in this, but it's true.
Question:What type of woman do you like?Answer:One who was born with a vagina.
Do you really believe that openly conservative women are a problem? From my observations they are an extreme minority.
@backontheblock22 I believe I said both "TOO conservative" and "staunch Republican". Too conservative is a matter of viewpoint. Staunch means they are so loyal, dedicated and faithful to a "party" that they'll BLINDLY support it no matter they do. No one should EVER do that, no matter what side you're on. I would have difficulty with a staunch defender of the Dems too, because they're not "all" right in the head either. I want a girl who's sharp enough to evaluate what's said and find the truth, wherever it comes from.
Of all the dates I’ve gone in the last 10 years I’ve yet to come across a die hard conservative female. However I have seen a very large percentage of very vocal and loud liberal females. But I agree that open political extremism is annoying. But I see it more on one side.
Back nearly ten years ago, I had a friend of mine lie to me about not being able to become pregnant. She was no less than two months pregnant at the time, no more than three. She had to have known she was pregnant. While I’ve forgiven her, I don’t trust her, and it will be hard for me to trust her again after that.
@etexbearkat Maybe she was trying to conceive at the time and didn’t think she was able to
She was 17 years old (I was 20) at the time. There's no way she was trying to conceive, and plus she told me about the fact she couldn't get pregnant in August of 2011, and she had her oldest son on Valentine's Day the next year, so it was about six months after she told me, so if she went full term, she was no less than two months pregnant.
Just to make it clear, she and I have no contact with one another today, and I never dated her.
I see a trend in all this.
@exitseven Is that right?
I agree with all of these.
No it’s probably cause she doesn’t know what your intentions are and how would you know if she gave it up easily in the past
I would know cause she would tell me, if she didn't I wouldn't know... but I had that experience dated someone for two years who easily gave it up to others but not me. I didn't know about her past until she told me two years into it. Then it made me think something was wrong with me, when other guys she would give it up first night, or a week later.The biggest red flat was her inability to keep a job though.Hey you asked us what a red flag was, I'm just answering.