Not much other than Religious and Conservative. Any thing else is kinda subjective.
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Gold diggers.
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1. Not being honest
2. A history of being unfaithful to previous boyfriends/fiances/husbands (this is if you are talking dating/marriage)
3. Does not accept me for who I am
4. Judges me for my past
5. Leads me on into thinking she's either interested in being friends with me or dating, and she's not (have had this happen to me before)
6. This goes back to number 1 and 5, but isn't direct with me about where she thinks the relationship or potential relationship is going
7. If you are talking dating and marriage, someone who is not a Christian
8. If you are talking dating and marriage, someone is on the left of the political spectrum (I'm a conservative)
9. She can't control her own spending
10. If you are talking dating and marriage, she has mental health/neurological issues (I have ADHD and autism), and she doesn't have them under control. I have a female friend who has severe mental health problems, and it's not fun dealing with that.
The list could go on.1. her needing alone time
2. her not answering messages or messaging other guys more than me.
3. her being still friends with an ex
4. she has kids or wants them
5. she is racist
6. she is religious/spiritual
7. she lacks common sense
8. she is a prude
9. she is flirty with people other than me
10. she is uncomfortable having no secrets from me
11. she smokes, drinks alcohol, or otherwise uses drugs
12. she doesn't like difficult video games
13. she doesn't like cartoons/anime, sci-fi, and fantasy
14. she is anti science
15. she refuses an std test
16. she is lazy or a mooch/leech
17. she lets her emotions drive her logic rather than the other way around.
18. she has tattoos or peircings or those weird penciled on eyebrows.
19. she cheated on someone at any point in her life
20. she has a gore or blood fetish
21. her or her home is filthy on s regular basis
22. she talks like a stoned person
23. she likes sports
24. She has an infectious disease
25. she tries to act like my boss and control me by telling me what I can and can't do (aside from fidelity related stuff or in general just not being an ass)
26. poor hygeine, obesity, anorexia, or otherwise just not taking care of herself.
27. being critical of other's harmless personal preferences
28. double standards/hypocracy
29. dishonesty
30. a lack lf sexual interest in me
31. only sexual interest in me
32. being a follower
33. lacking an altruistic personality
34. No sene of humor
35. weird or nasty smells
36, wearing makeup, perfume, or other fake smelly crap on a date.General unwarranted suspicion early on (like asking if my wife/girlfriend just texted me on the first date), lack of confidence, pays too much attention to what her girlfriends think, debates me on trivial things, Inappropriate edginess, makes a lot of social media posts about what a catch she is, makes outdated pop culture references that are too mainstream to claim that she's being "ironic," demonstrates a blatant inability to tell jokes. I tend to see these behaviors in the same person and it absolutely never bodes well. That last one is tricky because it's not about telling one bad joke (we all make jokes that fall flat sometimes, it's all good), it's about establishing a pattern that proves that she clearly doesn't understand what's funny, when it's funny, and why. Like I understand that humor is a tricky thing, but I can't have a conversation with someone who genuinely believes that it would be funny to write "I'm a bird lawyer who will probably like your dog more than I like you," on a dating profile. I'm sure you're a sweetheart, but your pop culture references have been beaten to death, and your comment about liking my dog more than me is only funny if I know you well enough to know that you aren't on Bumble to cut the Humane League out of the adoption process.
I try to be open minded but in my experience it’s best to avoid the following:
1. Women are openly political and bring up politics on the first date.
2. Women who identify as feminist. Different story if she is just independent/successful withOUT having to use that term.
3. If she has kids. This is debatable because I once dated a widow. But more of then not I felt like I’m being treated as the “safety net” here.
4. If she is deep in debt for illegitimate reasons. Exceptions would be student loan debt because she is for sure going to become a doctor (with no risk of her changing her mind).
5. If she has ever been committed for psychiatric reasons.
6. If she has accused more than one man of sexual assault. If it was an isolated incident and she did the right thing and reported it to the police that’s one thing. But if she has done this numerous times that’s a huge red flag.
7. If she has no direction in her life and can’t support herself financially. Gold diggers in western countries are lazy selfish POS’s
8. STDs are debatable. If she’s got something serious that’s going to make life difficult more multiple reasons. However if she’s got HPV or Herpes but was honest from the start and is an otherwise very good person I might make an exception.
9. If she has a history of dating physically abusive and/or violent men. If it was just a one time short lived isolated incident in her youth that’s one thing. But I have met more than one women who secretly lust for this bullshit and I have no sympathy for them.
10. If she admits she had cheated more than once in the past. I do believe it’s posible for a one time cheater to feel extreme remorse, change and redeem themselves. But I’ve also met people who try to justify it. You are nothing but a piece of shit sociopath if that’s the case.asking me if im married r have kids would be a red flag for me , i see why some women do it but in general i see no reason why they need too ask. and another red flag would be a girl who is nice and friendly then tells you that maybe next week you can go out because they have plans already and then one of there friends conveniently shows up to bail them out.
if girls can't be honest with me then why should i bother with a date with another girl who is acting like her? is there some kind of girl code that says they have t lie t get out f a date? why not be honest? is the truth that complicated for women.
and understand i have been single for 30 years and i dont met wmen for sex or some 3rd thing like the younger guys do i just like going out for a mvie maybe dinner or a coffee.
how is that a turn off for a girl if im paying for it all as a guy should?High body count
Always complaining - never acting
Only conservative when it benefits her
No father figure
Overly Critical/Aggressive
Begs for sympathy
Slutty outfit
Thinking she's a catch/I am lucky to be with her
Has cheated on someone
Doesn't like kids/animals
Too much going on with her body (too many tattoos, weird hair color, a piece of metal on every body part etc.)
Doesn't take care of herself
Mainly has male friends
Constantly hating on men
Only talks about her career and independence
Feminist/BLM supporter
Loves parties, clubs too much
No critical thinking
I could keep going.Definite red flags for me are:
1. Smoking, use of drugs, and drunkenness.
2. Tattoos and body piercings.
3. Any abusive or disrespectful behaviour (including nagging) or the use of profanity.
4. Her not being a natural born and fully heterosexual adult female.
5. Thongs or the like.
6. Her being large or overweight.
7. Irreconcilable differences, like her being a feminist or racist or supporting abortion, or if she's not a Christian.
8. The keeping of secrets from me.
9. Her having a boyfriend or an ex she hasn't gotten over.
10. Her being high maintenance or a golddigger.There are so many. LOL Let's start with:
* Narcissist - that has a lot of sub categories
* Unaffectionate and not into sex
* Rude and unkind, especially to people in the service industry
* Too conservative, Fox News lover which likely means she's a staunch Republican (implication: can't discern fact from fiction or think for herself)
* Judgmental
* Heavily tattooed, or tattooed prominently in all the wrong places
* Still hung up on an ex and emotionally unavailable
* Doesn't care about her appearance, weight, health, etc.
* Can't listen, talks all the time
* Religiously orthodox
There's more, but that's a startA girl that can't be honest is my biggest red flag. One time I dated a girl and her friend had a boy-friend who visited from our of town. Said friend was cheating on her boyfriend and my girlfriend didn't want me to say anything to the original boyfriend. To this day that bugs me and that was twenty years ago.
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