The majority of the things women think are red flags in men, are not. And the things they find attractive are the actual red flags.
Calling women sluts or whores if they act like sluts or whores, isn’t a read flag. It’s holding them responsible for their actions. Like women calling men the endless amount of terms when they find men “creepy, perverted, slimy, etc”
Red flags that women ignore are the frat boy attitude, a guy who parties or does drugs, a guy who acts like he is the shit. These are guaranteed to be guys who will treat them like a commodity and cheat but women will always ignore these and find it “confident” and sexy.
I have been with my wife for 10 years and treat her like a queen, I am also my daughters favourite person and she comes to me for advice more than her mom because I treat her with love and respect. But I will call a slut a slut. I expect women to be responsible for their actions. I don’t agree with the bullshit idea that girls can ever hear negative about themselves or even other women. When girls are raised to have dignity and self respect, we will stop having a society where almost naked girls walk around in public with entitlement and expect bad people to stop existing because they “can wear what they want”
I behave in a controlling manner, i do have a lot of friends, if i was in a serious relationship than i do have jealousy to a certain extent, i do not call my ex crazy but the truth is that she suffered from some mental issues and my other ex, well it was my fault that we broke up and i won't blame myself a lot because i was 19 back then and it was LDR...
If i was in a serious relationship than yes i'll spend the majority of my time with my love!
Raise you're red flags 🤣
Don you think that i give a damn about what anyone thinks about me, BE HAPPY that i'm real and do not lie, at least you know whom you're with 😌
I'm 36 years old, not a kid, if she likes me the way i am so be it and if not, than she can hit the road!
Back to back calling for no emergency and being too much too early like wanting to get serious and is in love right away
He used to be in jail
He has a problem w his family
He talks shit
He fucked w prostitute
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Good question with a valid concern to cation about. Although a lot of men might surprise you how to the contrary most speak of women they feel and use as an ultimate example are always the very worst of the worst , insidious and ludicrist types. I've heard thousands of different men describe different women in various vulgar ways. Not to my pleasing of vocabulary usuallt , I've questioned some of them who have displayed discorses about certain women of they're mentions and found that most are very fond of a certain type of woman they speak dearly of and grafically and abusively of the ones of 0 desire or interest of depise. I've have certainly also have had the liberty to hear females speak and act the very same with men they depise too. The difference I've experienced with both is men speak terrible about the women they've had experience with in a past tence and women gestimat through venralization and assumption of the men who probably might fit that paridym.
I don't think anyone can tell what another person is like until some time is spent with that person. And how a man treats a woman when they are alone is not something we can speculate about, even if we know the guy as a buddy. But if you want examples.
1. Borrows your phone
2. Borrows money doesn't pay back
3. Borrows all kinds of things from you.
4. Is always very late, inconsiderate
5. Makes a big deal out of little problems.
6. Won't stop arguing until he is right
7. Bragg's about how much of a bad boy he was, jail time, hard drugs, fighting, crimes, etc.
8. Gambler
9. Drinks a lot of beer every day
10. Always breaking things or wrecking things
11. Always gets into some kind of jam and calls you to bail him out.
I'll bet the ladies would like this guys number, he sounds so hot!
I won't date a guy who "jokes" about wanting to physically hurt people. You can't just laugh afterwards and that makes it joke.
If you admit you want to hurt others when they make you mad, that let's me know I can end up in the same boat. No thank you.
It is certainly true that the way a man talks about women will give information on how he treats women.
It is also true that the way a woman talks about men is a clear indication of how she will treat men and what she is like as a person. For example, a woman who says things like "all men with few exceptions are low value and most men are shit" is clearly a low value woman herself. Women who say such things are shitty humans who make terrible partners and are very unattractive to good men.
Which group of men do you consider to be the 'lowest' value?
Some women leave men for not having the mentioned qualities.
1. Like not being jealous bc he doesn't care doesn't love me.
2. He spends time with his friends doesn't give me time at all.
3. I played a prank and told my boyfriend that i went to club and he didn't respond he is not jealous and doesn't care red flag will leave him
You know, I think it's best to just look for exactly what you want than to look at what you're trying to avoid. I like a woman with true class, integrity, principles and self respect. And that will manifest itself in a number of ways. And usually none of these red flags will pop up because the qualities I listed literally cannot coexist with being controlling, demeaning, jealous, having no life or being overly jealous.
Too much time on their hands
Seriously talks a lot of shit about others
Narcistic
Controlling (Unless you're one of those weird ones that likes that)
Just because he has no friends doesn't mean he's bad. Some people don't like a lot of people around. Introverts. If you have to surround yourself with people to feel like you matter then you're really insecure.
well, there are many differing opinions on this. Feminists will tell you something very different than right wing men. in my opinion, one of the biggest red flags in men is if he supports female promiscuity. It means he wants to fuck sluts and will likely cheat on you or just see you as another fuck
Getting jealous when they didn't want a relationship
Silent treatment when they don't get what they want
Projecting their faults onto you making out you are in the wrong
If they agree with you no matter what you say. Try saying the dumbest thing you can think of and if they don't have the balls to ask wtf you're talking about, there's that red flag.
Ask @Subarugirl she knows anything and everything about men and their selfish, sexist, and rapist ways…
*Misogynist
*Talks about pill stuff
*Has casual sex
*Has a high body count (>4)
Yes i do have all the features in your res flag list
If he supports feminism
If he is a fudanshi
If he has issues with anti-sjws
Some of things you mentioned could be true or false. What if their exes really are crazy? Spends all their time on you? What? Some women are sluts so if the shoe fits wear it.
No driver’s license
no CHRIST
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