What are the biggest red flags in men?

[Pegases]

We hear a lot about the red flags in women, so now it's your turn ladies. What are the biggest red flags you've seen in men, and how do you avoid those men?

[sassy_receptor]

there’s a lot but right now i think my top are if he uses the term “female” to describe women, he subscribed to red pill ideologies, and he acts cheap/doesn’t take me out on dates/doesn’t get me gifts sometime in the relationship.

[Pegases]

I will say tho, the term female is used often in the military. So it's worth not writing off a man for simply using the term. Also, what about the term female rubs you the wrong way?

[sassy_receptor]

no i definitely will because unless you’re talking about biology or medical subjects, there’s no reason to use the term female. it runs me the wrong way because it’s often used in a demeaning way and is belittling. men will be quick to call women females but won’t call each other males. they literally use the term females and men in the same sentence and that says a lot. i don’t want a man like that as a partner. imagine we had a daughter and how he would treat her. absolutely not.

[Pegases]

Fair enough. Thanks for the opinion.

[MendaciousMarxist]

There's a lot but having a big forehead is one. being in the military is another. If he's republican, he will abuse you

[Pegases]

Why the military?

[MendaciousMarxist]

military people are infamous for being cheaters. military spouses cheat, military husbands cheat. military men also ooze of toxic masculinity most of the time.

[Guy13]

Overprotective of phone and does not treat people in general civilly.

[Anonymous]

- When they are overly friendly
-when they flirt when they drink
-when they bash their ex
-when they show off
- when they don’t do their laundry regularly
-when their clothes are tidy but their home is sloppy
-when they drive recklessly
-when they flirt without consent
-when they touch without consent
-when they invite you to their house but ignore you if you don’t want to come over


Endless red flags but that’s a few to start