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Alfred Adler [Humanistic] Theory: We All Have One Basic Desire and Goal: To Belong and Feel Significant

So I stumbled across a reference to Alfred Adler today. I decided to do some research. I think I like this fellow. He's my kind of guy. He's a humanist. I think I'm a humanist. Not in any sort of formal or organized way...
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My insecurities + his personality = I don't know what to do?

I (25 yo female) have been with my boyfriend (24 yo male) for about 6 months. Because of past insecurities and needing to know somebody very well emotionally before dating, he is my first proper boyfriend, I'm worried...
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Girls/women just want men to make them feel good/better about themselves whilst not doing anything confidence building?

That old 'girls are a mystery' thing - which they are not, not even one bit, The accomplished ones are very similar to accomplished guys - busy, but aware they can get their lives organised, give love, receive love....
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Why do Progressive male feminists who hate masculinity and mansplaining so much always expect to get treated like the strong masculine men they hate?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/XCkEdB87yGA THESE KINDS OF GUYS HERE, LIKE TO PUT THEIR BALLS ON THE CHOPPING BLOCK TO DEFEND... https://www.youtube.com/embed/TSKizLRFbTo ... THESE KINDS OF WOMEN, HERE. Okay. I usually...
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Is female confidence temporary?

it seems like a girl will be like "love yourself" and all that other stupid shit, and then a week later she's getting her hair colored blue cause she's having insecurity problems. My confidence is eternal. I have it every...
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Can you be seen as confident but still sometimes reveal insecurities?

like you can be overall confident but sometimes have insecurities still? does being confident mean you can never show insecurities? If so How would you know if someone is still confident despite their insecurities?...
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like you can be overall confident but sometimes have insecurities still? does being confident mean you can never show insecurities? If so How would you know if someone is still Show More
Yes it is possible to be confident but still have insecurities
No if you’re confident you dont show insecurities
It depends on what they are insecure about
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Just how is aggression insecurity?

I'm aggressive because I know what I deserve. But sure I guess I lack confidence or whatever.
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I'm not depressed, but I cut myself?

Every time I'm in a bad mood or am stressed, I would always cut myself, but the cuts are always pretty shallow, barely bleeding. I'm pretty happy most of the time, always laughing, but I still cut myself, and I'm really...
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Should I work on myself before pursuing a relationship?

I am 32 years old and never have a girlfriend in every sense of the word. I lack confidence, too needy and lots of other insecurities.
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I don't know what to do! I have so many girl friends?

When i was in high school i didn't have so many friends, but i started to chat with people online and i begin to chat more with girs than guys, (i know that i'm a very femminin straight guy who allwise want to overthinks...
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Struggle with Intimacy?

I'm 21 years old and I've noticed that I have issues with intimacy. I always feel uncomfortable calling a girl "Babe", "Baby", "Honey", or any other cuddly name of that nature. I also feel really funny about eye contact...
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If you could only have ONE of these, and none of the others, which one would you choose?

Pick one perfect thing in your life. The rest will be mediocre/sub-par (a 3 out of 10 in quality). And no, you CANNOT use one to cheat and get the other ones. ONE thing will be perfect, and the rest will be crap, unless...
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Pick one perfect thing in your life. The rest will be mediocre/sub-par (a 3 out of 10 in quality). And no, you CANNOT use one to cheat and get the other ones. ONE thing will be Show More
The love of your life, who is devoted to you, now and forever.
The ideal body you've always wished you had.
Your dream career, with the skill and talent to go with it.
The two best friends anyone could ask for.
Self-actualization and confidence.
Instant wealth.
Jack of all Trades (A little bit of everything, but none of them are that great.)
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How do I overcome my insecurities and stop feeling bad about myself? How do I actively change my mindset and not just feel good 4 a couple of weeks?

For me there's always a high and low point :^( They come and go every couple of weeks. What should I do, so I feel better and be more confident about myself for the rest of my life? And not just feel good one day then the...
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Do women lose attraction to man if he shows too many love due to the possibility of him cheating?

so ok ok ok ok hear me out, my latest ex girlfriend that i only knew for very little on online broke up with me because me being me was just being myself and really caring about her kind to her love her and all that good...
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Discussion: Is self discovery necessary in picking a partner? Do you need to go through a process of knowing yourself first?

I was the “good girl.” Whatever that meant to me back then is what I strived for. I thought that I was doing a good job of being who I thought I should be. But I had a lot of insecurities that I hadn’t even had to face...
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What is her problem?

I think I’m pretty but know I still have some insecurity issues to work out. Every time I see a pretty girl on the street I get inspired. I do wear makeup and am always looking for a better way to improve and get a lot of...
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How do I meet a girl during lockdown?

I study a very technical study at a University, and never really come across any girls (there's literally 4 in my study, and I think 2 already dropped out lol).. I've had a dry spell since highschool, and now it's my...
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Am I insecure or is it my boyfriend?

Hi guys, I recently had a breakup, been crying every day. Is this all from my insecurity or was it my boyfriend's fault? I was really confident before my relationship but got into dating this guy. He was really...
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Should I ask her if she is still iinterested in me?

I have been chatting with this woman (we are in a long distance relationship) for a few weeks now and for a while it was all constant texting every chance we had, but over the last two weeks it has gone somewhat quiet,...
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How do/did you turn your insecurities around?

My low self esteem and insecurities make me ugly and unattractive to others. I dont mean in a romantic way, but in general. I would be more wanted and loved if i had actual self confidence. Im almost hitting my 30s and im...
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